FOB won't pay

[Rhio92]

The dick is refusing to pay maintenance CSA are taking forever; I think he's ignoring them. Basically, he said he won't pay unless he's allowed to take Connor on his own. I said fine, he won't see him until he pays. He reckons I'm being selfish and only thinking of myself Am I? Should I allow to him to see the baby that he won't even provide for? x

 

[Strawberrymum]

Raising a baby isn't just about looking after them you got to support them too. It's not fair he just gets to see the baby and not have to pay. You can't just take the good stuff with parenting. Don't let him see the baby unless you trust him and no your baby will be in good hands. Don't no where yo ulive but custody and financial support are too different things so you can make him pay but not let him see the baby. But if hes trustworthy and a good dad them you should for your baby. Good luck hope I made sense

 

[JoJo16]

i don't think your being unreasonable atall. annoys me how they just wana do the fun things! x