VickyLou and Gregsprincess, how is it going? Babies?
I'm booked in for Wednesday and still hoping to go by myself as I did with my other two. It's looking unlikely as the days pass xx
I gave birth yesterday at 4.55pm my yellow bump turned blue 6lb 7.5ozs
it was a slow process and I wanted to give in at the end but I'm so glad I did it naturally. I had first lot of gel in at 1am Monday morning had some cramps during the night but nothing too bad. Dr checked me at 9 or 10am don't remember but she said there wasn't really any change other than slightly softer (my God do those cervix exams hurt) had second lot of gel and told to try going on ball, have small walks but not too much due to BP. by yesterday morning I was at 4cm but contractions weren't that regular. At about midday they started me on drip to help contractions be more regular. I used gas and air and had low dose of pethidine. When it came time to push I panicked and didn't want to do it - didn't like how my body took over and I had no control
anyway 15mins of pushing and a cut he was born.
I really hope things pick up for you VickyLou, the only advice I can give is to just think positive about the process, I kept repeating mantras to myself that the gel was softening and opening my cervix like a flower, my body knew what it was doing everything was working as it should etc. I know it's hard but you need the adrenaline of panic to go