Hi guys! I need to run an idea through you to get some opinions. I'm currently suspecting I'm not ovulating at all, although I still get periods. Or if I ovulate, then very late in the cycle and it's interfering with me trying to make a baby (I can't have planned sex every other day for 40 days straight. For various reasons). So the way I see it I have 3 options here.
1) Go for all the tests doctor asked (HSG, SA) and get Clomid prescription and try that. I don't know how long they let you mess with Clomid until they suggest there's no point anymore? It would imply going baby-making-crazy for another 4-5 months. I really don't think I can handle the intensity of it right now.
2) Go on a pill for a few months to clear up the cysts and then try again without drugs for a few months. My first cycles after the pill were great, regular and everything (I wasn't TTC though). And I didn't have cysts while I was on the pill.
3) Forget all about trying to track ovulation and just go with the flow for some time. Try to loose weight and get healthier. The problem is though, even with perfect BMI 21 I had cysts and irreguar periods, so no guaranteed I ovulated then. And I'm afraid if there's any chance I could get pregnant, I wouldn't be able to stop the obsession, which wouldn't give me a break I so desperately need right now.
So what do you think? Which one would you pick? At the moment I'm heavily inclined to try the second first. The pill worked for me. My period returned right away, it "felt" like normal cycle and for a few months it was until cysts returned in full and apparently now overloaded my ovaries again. So it looks like a win-win. I get a few month of worry-free time, to completely relax and de-stress. And hopefully it'll be enough to get a few normal cycles after when I can really try. And if none of that works, then I could go back to considering 1st option. And if that fails, the 3rd it is.
I'm so beating myself up for not trying to figure out the reason for my irregular cycles earlier, years ago. I just always assumed that as long as you still have more-or-less timely periods, there's nothing wrong with your baby-making abilities. UGH!! So mad.