I totally get that! It sucks and makes you want to cry!! lol. AT least you're not oblivious.
I've realized my friends weren't so great friends either.
So now I'm stuck with me and OH and some general acquaintances.
I hardly ever go anywhere, no bff to chat with when I'm bored, but it's worth it because stinky friends just get you into trouble and cause more stress than you need. I'm just hoping that off in college I can find some more mature people. MHMMmm. That's the way to go. New things bring in NEW people.