cosmicgirlxxx
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I had 4 boys. I was ttc for 14 months for this, my last lo. I've also suffered losses. We tried once more to have a little girl to complete our family. I love my boys to pieces but I have a piece of my puzzle missing and it's a pink piece.
When all the boys are out with my oh playing football at the weekends I'd love a little girl to do things with, someone to have the relationship with like I have with my mum. It's always been my dream.
So to find that this is a 5th boy disappointed me. Of course it did, and what's wrong with being disappointed when being told that something you have dreamed of is never going to happen???
Some people have no understanding or empathy for people with gender disappointment, it's not that ladies don't love their lo, aren't grateful for a healthy baby, that's missing the point completely.
It's disappointment for what you DON'T have, not what you do.
I'm past caring what judgemental people say anymore tbh, unless you've walked a mile in my shoes.....
Oh and to the op, come join the GD section, we show only compassion in there, no judgement x
When all the boys are out with my oh playing football at the weekends I'd love a little girl to do things with, someone to have the relationship with like I have with my mum. It's always been my dream.
So to find that this is a 5th boy disappointed me. Of course it did, and what's wrong with being disappointed when being told that something you have dreamed of is never going to happen???
Some people have no understanding or empathy for people with gender disappointment, it's not that ladies don't love their lo, aren't grateful for a healthy baby, that's missing the point completely.
It's disappointment for what you DON'T have, not what you do.
I'm past caring what judgemental people say anymore tbh, unless you've walked a mile in my shoes.....
Oh and to the op, come join the GD section, we show only compassion in there, no judgement x