maybethisit
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Hi, we are having a difficult time trying to decide whether to find out the sex of the baby at the 20 week scan. I didn't find out with my first two, who are now teenagers, but that was a long time ago and with my first husband. This is our first baby together and things are very different, but we just can't decide!
I'd especially appreciate anyone else's reasons for NOT finding out, as the reasons for finding out are fairly clear. I just have a bit of a feeling still that it's lovely not to know until the birth, but weighed against that is the practicality of knowing for buying stuff, and also the sheer excitement of wanting to find out at the scan! We just don't know what to do...
I'd especially appreciate anyone else's reasons for NOT finding out, as the reasons for finding out are fairly clear. I just have a bit of a feeling still that it's lovely not to know until the birth, but weighed against that is the practicality of knowing for buying stuff, and also the sheer excitement of wanting to find out at the scan! We just don't know what to do...