Thanks, but egg quality can only be checked via a fertility doc and embryologist...Big $ and I can't afford that.
When I was using first donor, I got 2-3 donations per cycle, timed near perfect everytime, and for a full year before that me and my ex had unprotected sex over a year, also perfectly timed- we were NTNP but I was charting every month, and using OPKs temping etc....
Not likely that 4 diff men in 14 months all have sperm issues

Also when I was a surro, my first couple - the wife was 42.
I got to see the embryos before each transfer, and tho they fertilized perfectly, and were in 100% perfect conditions ( embryologist monitoring) by 3dpo most embryos were shedding cells , and by 5dpo all were.
I recall vividly bcuz he showed me each time. They kept telling her to use an egg donor cuz her egg quality was poor, but she wouldn't listen.
So even if I Ov like clockwork, egg quality is HUGE, and most fert docs say by late 20's it loses a bit of quality, mid 30's is nearly 50% worse, and 40's 70%+ of quality has dropped.
I'm just being realistic. I've never been one to try and fool myself, and the same way we repeat facts about most common implant day, and most common day for bfp etc, there's no point ignoring certain facts ...
Haven't talked to donor yet, but if he's not willing, then I have another search to start. Not giving up, but the facts are def getn real.
Every child I have had has been conceived first cycle trying, bcuz I have logged my cycles since I was 13 lol.
So the fact that it hasn't worked with 4 diff men (diff ages even), and throw in the 2-3 chems I had last year....My eggs are the common denominator.