General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[DobbyForever]

Omg that is freaking hilarious! I hope you get to see the heart, too! 5w6d is a toss up, so FXed!!!

 

[TexasRider]

Thanks guys. She's already had 1 set of tubes but if she needs another set it's ok. Just want her to feel better. I hope I'm wrong but most of the time I'm not. Lol

Good luck at you scan tmrw campn!

 

[FutureMrs]

Just wondering if you ladies have any thoughts or suggestions, I've stopped bleeding/my period after 48 hours, which is uncommon for me and it was lighter then usual. I took another test this evening just to be sure and it was negative and I don't feel pregnant but I feel like I should be bleeding more, am I over analyzing? Maybe it'll just be a slow drawn or process I don't know. My body feels foreign right now it's so frustrating.

 

[DobbyForever]

I have had some bizarre short, light periods before. Never found out why. If there aren't any other symptoms or your temp is low then I would chalk it up to a weird cycle. Otherwise, could be something. Sorry! Not helpful

 

[campn]

Future- Maybe you'll bleed again on and off? Sadly sometimes it's a process and like labor contractions can come and go? Your next period will probably be heavier if some of the lining stayed behind and didn't all tear?

 

[FutureMrs]

Ah that sounds torturous! We're getting married in Mexico in 3 months so my plan was to go back on BC now that Zika virus seems to be a concern but I'm not sure how that will effect this whole process! Should probably just let my body so it's thing!

 

[FutureMrs]

I think your right dobs! This whole cycle has been bizarre and annoying!

 

[gigglebox]

Future, might just not have finished yet, which i have read can happen (i.e. It cam break and come back on). You may want to call your ob just to make sure everything is peogressing as it should. So sorry you're going through this.

Dobs, wtf...hubs likes me around too if he's gaming, i guess it's comforting having us nearby, even if we aren't paying attention...? Anyway, what does being disowned by the family entail? Do they basically need a cool down period, and then they'll talk again? That's what i imagine will go down. Also, you're a hottie with a body. Jus' sayin'.

Campn, yay for early scans! Hope you can see something, though this early i'm not sure if they'll see a heart beat. Just remember that! If your doctor goes into negative mode because you "should" see something since he'll think you're 7ish weeks, don't listen. Don't let him scare you. For some reason, in my personal experience, doctors and nurses don't give two craps if you know the date you ovulated, but they'll take your word on the first day of your last period wtf.

 

[mrs.green2015]

Not Ttc related but had anyone ever had sciatic nerve pain? I've had this pain most of the day. It's so bad I've been in tears. Anybody have any relief remedies? Besides tons of drugs (just took my last Tylenol with codeine)

 

[DobbyForever]

Gigs, no cool down period. He is just out. Period. End of story. The only way back in is to break up with me and date a girl from his church. Otherwise, he might as well not exist to them. It's so disgusting.

Greenie, I haven't. Sorry. The only thing I can think are like maybe stretches? But idk.

Future, hoping things regulate so you can get that bfp soon!

AFM, having cramping off and on today. If I wasn't only 9dpo, I would think AF was coming tomorrow. Got nothing but indents. Curious to see what my temp does tomorrow.

 

[claireybell]

Your literally 6wks Campn, i think something will def be seen on scan if you have one i will pray for no 3 headed dragpns Lol! Im sure it will be fine X

 

[gigglebox]

Good luck today campn! Can't wait to see the scan!

Dobs, that's absolutely terrible. They sound like horrible people anyway...good riddance.

Mrs, i've had it--the type that runs down your butt into your leg and is debilitating. The only thing that helped me was muscle relaxers and anti-inflammatories, in conjunction with each other

 

[DobbyForever]

Temp is basically the same as yesterday and consistent with my bfp chart and 12 day lp charts at 10dpo, but having a clear bfn I give up. Hugs, you asked what the plan is. I don't know anymore. I feel like I have to choose between baby now and lose SO or baby later and keep him. It seems like such a clean cut choice but idk

 

[pacificlove]

I hope you ladies are all doing good.

Dobs heads up! I hope you get it figured out, or your so will I guess more so.

As for me, dh spoke with the seller and I could drive out as early as this weekend!!!! Only problem is that the Rockies have snow in the forecast for that weekend. There is a looong stretch of downhill that I am not sure I am comfortable driving with a heavy loaded trailer.
We will see

Oh and our kitten is in heat... She is singing her song. She'll get spayed in the new location, I don't trust the vets here.

 

[campn]

Good morning ladies I just got back home, so they did the scan and basically couldn't see much. They saw the gestational sac, and the yolk sac but nothing else. The scan measured 5 weeks and 6 days exactly (like I know I ovulated) so the nurse just said no reason to worry cause it's still early.

They drew blood and I've to go again on Wednesday to see if it doubled. They'll do another scan when I'm 7 weeks to see if they can see something by then.

I'm a little worried but also trying to remind myself that it's early. Just hoping for the best now.

 

[mrs.green2015]

Campn- you're measuring right on track! Try not to be too nervous.

Pl- hopefully the weather clears up and you can make the trip this weekend. So exciting! And cats in heat are soooo annoying lol

Dob- sorry about your tough decision. I would have no idea what I'd do. Maybe if you have a talk with SO he'll come around to Ttc again? Just trying to think positive.

Afm- temp is the same as yesterday. Hoping it stays up but already loosing faith.

 

[JLM73]

FInally caught up...
Gigs 0 chance of being in this cycle. I am rgular as can be with O cd13/14.
Also donor doesn't want to donate anymore, so I am totally out of ttc until I find a new donor.
To top it off mom is being a mega Bitch. Older son is ignoring me.
He needed to retake his driving test today, so mom came asking nicely about driving him.
I told her - Oh no you two work that out.
She tried to say I promised him and I said well that was before you got him cursing me out and getting all in my face!
She hid the keys last night( we have 1 car) and refused to let me drive to get young son an icee(slurpee...slushie)
I told her NOPE you two work that out. Since he's too proud to apologize I'm not helping him with SH*T.
Gonna go lay down...killer headache from all this drama...

 

[gigglebox]

Hmm dobs, tough call. I'm all for being honest...but it almost seems like he'd be more accepting of it "accidentally" happening than actively trying. But...wouldn't be fair to actively try without his knowledge....i don't know. Maybe suggest the ntnp approach?

Campn, sounds perfect! They're checking "to make sure" but you're spot on by your dates so don't even worry.

Pl, looks like you're in the tww of a different variety! Personally i wouldn't risk the snowy drive with all the animals...

 

[gigglebox]

J, i'm not even sure what to say. Honestly though, and please don't hate me, but maybe you should put effort into getting out instead of adding a baby to the mix...your mom sounds bat shit and that whole situation doesn't sound good for an infant....that said, i know you're bio clock is ticking so sorry you're stuck between a rock and a hard place!

 

[JLM73]

Understandable but after 14 cycles not working- I really don't have time to waste.
I am working on separating housing, but the way she is the entire fam would be against me for not staying to help her given her age.
Honestly TTC not working is what is causing 90% of my stress.
Dealing with her is nothing new.
Older son is only teaming up with her because she's helping him buy his first car.
I already told her as soon as he gets what he wants he won't be bothered to give her the time of day.
Foolishly she gave him 2k for Xmas, I can guarantee you he has already spent half of the money on his PS4 etc.

Dobs I know it was pages ago but I see a squinter ....not sure if it's the annoying New FRER chem line showing