General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[DobbyForever]

I'm a guilty long time lurker. I love this thread, so interesting. It makes me smile when I'm having a rough day. I'm not sure I could keep up responses to people so I tend to lurk more.

Flueky!!! I was wondering if you were going to say something ever.

 

[DobbyForever]

I've lost my mind

 

[campn]

Dobby- I assume your SO is uncut too? I know Canada doesn't snip! We snipped DS's but I regret it so much now. I was naive, if this one is a boy I'm leaving it intact.

Flukey- I was a big lurker here too! The conversations are just so good especially if I was having a bad day after a BFN

 

[DobbyForever]

NOOOO! Snip that s***! Jk First, you're having a girl so this is irrelevant. Second, if you have a boy it's nonmabizniz. SO is cut. Honestly, I was pretty sexually shallow by the time I met him that if he had been uncut I would have peaced out after the first "date". I want none of that. Because no matter what they say or how erect they are or once they are in, it is obvious and just turns me off.

I always found it funny that most cultures say to leave it intact but so many men I know have been snipped.

 

[campn]

Dobby- I've taken (brace yourself!!) a DIGITAL when my period once started!! What was I even thinking!?? It to say "oh just kidding you're pregnant ha ha"

I loathe myself sometimes. My brain says "don't do it don't do it don't do it!" And what do I do!? Do I ever listen to myself!? No. I don't.

 

[DobbyForever]

Dobby- I've taken (brace yourself!!) a DIGITAL when my period once started!! What was I even thinking!?? It to say "oh just kidding you're pregnant ha ha"

I loathe myself sometimes. My brain says "don't do it don't do it don't do it!" And what do I do!? Do I ever listen to myself!? No. I don't.

Omg I love it. If my temp wasn't so low I would probably use a sensitive digital, but my temp is low. It's not on my chart but it is low. This lot of dollar tree that I has shows a line before it dries, then dries bfn for a few minutes, then has the worst indent line! I thought I saw something with my eyes, not in the pic, but then in the negative. Idk. I'm just looking for things that aren't there. There is a clear indent now so probably just the indent.

 

[JLM73]

Wow I gotta catch up
Gigs- NOOOO breeding parties- more like rape fests no thx

Breeaa YAY a Plum!

Dobs<<OMG one time, I slept with every guy I worked with. It was so awkward because one day I walked in and they were all in the same room and said hi to me at the same time and then looked at each other... My friend was dying of laughter.>> OMG laughed so frickin hard- like a sitcom moment all of th in unison then looking at each other like

AFM I have 2 fetishes, and didn't realize it until my friend suggested I watch the series Queer as Folk (loved it!)
I find 2 very hot masculine men kissing - so fricking hot LOL NOOO idea why. I think it's the dichotomy of it. Not tongues all over,, just like in the show ( they have some hot ass scenes) just a passionate kiss OMG SPARTACUS!!! That series is friggin AWESOME - after major battles the warriors come back and have big drunken F fests lol Multi men with women, women with women, men with men !?
I am like this just short of drooling
Mild S&M thing in that the Lords and Ladies of the households are often "pleasured" by their slaves.
There's one scene where a nasty crotchety old senator is banging one of the young house Slave girls, and he looks over his shoulder and yells for a guy to "come shove c*ck in ass so I can finish That series always had surprises lol.

As for uncut men- THAT is my new fetish. Honestly once they are erect- all the same, the skin moves back. There is even a whole following of men that use devices to "regain" their foreskin! Like skin clamp with weights so over time the skin stretches due to the weights ( like those gauge ear plugs that strech ear lobes) so eventually the skin will cover the tip.

I have dated equal number of cut/uncut and I think now it has become my preference- it's like it's something different - like bagel, bagel, bagel, ooh DONUT!!
lol. Anyway apparently my dad was not cut, nor my oldest sons father, so I didn't do my younger son either. My oldest is a super ladies man- so trust me it's not a prob.
Really as long as a guy is clean ( which he SHOULD be anyway)
I love that uncut men are more sensitive- so that "edging" thing works like a charm and drives them mad Rawr baby hehe.
I dated a Belgian guy who was a total muscular stallion size - OMG dude was uncut, and ever since seeing that gorgeous buff bod like some perfect statue- I am hooked.
They stated the preference for circumcision has gone down. Personally I had to help hold babies down whiel they did them NOT nice.
I feel how can I want to protect this little being I created and as soon as they are delivered say "i don't like the look of that - cut that skin.."
Just seems wrong to me. Not to mention I dated a guy whose was botched, and sorry but a tan man part, with a jagged scar and pink head?? eww
I figure if it's a prob later for them then I'll pay for them to have it done- it's a few mins outpt deal.
But really I tell my boys- look this is the way God nature whomever intended you to be. The same way I don't want a guy saying my boobs need to be like such and such, if a woman isn't mature enough to accept it is natural and like you for YOU and not what part of you looks like- then she's not the woman for you.

 

[campn]

J- I LOVE Spartacus, although I've stopped at like season 3 cause I felt like I was losing my soul to all the violence and the sex, just needed a break from it.

I've been on BOTH sides, the very with circumcision, and now against it, and really you should do what you feel is right for your family, kinda like piercing baby girls ears, do what makes you comfortable. DH made the call cause he is cut and I went with it, but now I've changed my mind about and so has DH. If I brought that topic up in my family they'd hang me cause they're VERY pro circumcision, that's why I don't talk about anything controversial with them.

You ladies are super open minded and tolerant and I love that no one hates on anyone. The world needs more women like you!

 

[JLM73]

I know Campn riiighht??
We are all feel good in here , be who you are , do what you like lol I love it.
I only finished all of spartacus a few months ago- totally binged a whole day.
My friend gave me all the episodes UGH! I was so sad to see the "final, final credits" lol like the commercial that's out now. Me and man friend have been binge watching series since I met him in 2007. We used to make breakfast start a series, and go ep to ep straight thru ( or all day moviethons), then we would make a pizza by hand with tons of fresh sausage and cheese and spicy peppers ( ugh gut busters lol)
Ahhhh the good old days!
Here's the ad I meant :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSiD0LkSBl4

 

[Flueky88]

I tell you one of the nastiest things is peeling the foreskin back to put in a catheter only to see they haven't done proper cleaning. Cottage cheesy. But as far as circumcision to each their own.

Oh yes, J, definitely agree to no breeding parties.

Dobby and campn, I have also been guilty of testing after AF in case it wasn't AF or I was one of those ladies that still got a period while pregnant.

 

[gigglebox]

There is so much to reply on!

Tex, just curious, why did you cheat? I don't know about the piercings...think i'd have to give them a test run before writing the off but people get textured condoms, so why not a textured penis? Lol

Campn, i had a similar experience, hooked up with this guy from brazil who was uncut. That's a loooooong story...but he was going to stay with me in my apartment, but i wasn't as into him as i was online (oh, yeah, we were talking online for about a year and a half before we met and he was going to stay with me--camera, chat, and phone). Well i panicked one the poor guy was there on day two, and by day three i insisted he get an early flight back home. Honestly, i don't think it was him, it was me and i don't do well with spending a ton of time with people. I get overwhelmed and anxious. It's actually how i knew hubs was "the one"--i'd spend all day with him, but still feel like it wasn't enough time together.

Also, des is cut but i regret it--this is mainly because they botched it. They didn't cut enough off so he's got this extra skin that still covers his whole bit. I always get the same response from doctors when i ask them about it...they say, "well, better he's got a little extra than too much cut off." ??? Is that the alternative? Wtf? I'm worried about that when he's older. I also worry about caretakers seeing it and what they'll think

Now J after reading about your botched guy experience i'm feeling less ok with it i hope if it's weird when he's older, he can make the call of what to do with it and i'll support him and pay for it.

Also, campn, i did the exact same thing, let hubs make the call. Now hubs is against it and we won't snip the next (but also, i don't care what anyone else chooses. It's the parent's call).

So i started watching sex and the city....wow. It makes me feel depressed and mad and horny all at the same time. Not sure if i'll continue watching it...they make it seem like every human in existence is flawed majorly in some way. Why does every man they date have an issue? And the women are all bitches. I mean, they all have issues too. Also, i hate miranda's short hair lol

 

[campn]

They loosely circumcised my son so he's still got some skin over it which is fine I think cause it's the best of both worlds, but really I doubt it makes a guy cleaner, if you're a gross guy you'll junk will smell no matter skin or no skin. That's basic hygiene.

Sex and the city isn't realistic at all! And no judgement here but all of them sleep with everyone like it's their job. Their numbers must be in the 100s HAHAHA! And why is Carrie obsessed over Big like that!? No wonder he ran away

 

[Fern81]

Lurking!

I read a lot of different threads - much better than watching soaps lol. I think most of us can relate to the no masks, life in its full grimy glory that you ladies discuss on here! Whereas a lot of other threads are only ttc related. Maybe I'll join in the conversation one day.

 

[gigglebox]

i forgot to say hi to Fluke! Hi Fluke! And hi Fern! I'm very happy we are keeping you entertained and not offended.

I mean, i guess we shouldn't be surprised we have stalkers. We have one of the highest response threads on the main forum page. I guess people are curious how we can keep a discussion in pulling out going for over 500 pages

Campn, right?! They are all pretty promiscuous. Makes me wonder if that really is a sliver of the living in NYC single pie.

 

[campn]

It does make me envious that they get to live a fun filled life in NYC, while I live in good ole suburbia in the swamps! Haha!

But their apartments are so unrealistic, like FRIENDS, there's no way a sex columnist who writes once a week can afford an apartment this nice.

 

[mrs.green2015]

I couldn't keep up yesterday!

Circumcision- I like my men cut. Just as a personal preference and DH likes being cut so I'm sure that's what we'll do.

So I got my lingerie in the mail and man oh man! I love it. This is the first first time I've bought on yandy but I suggest it if you're cheap like me. Lol one piece I bought was $5!

Sex and the city, love it. But it's true it gets annoying. And do Campns point about affording the apartment. She never ever could. Lol I honestly don't know how anyone makes it in nyc. Lol

 

[TexasRider]

Well I cheated cause I was unhappy I guess. 1st hubs was abusive and I knew I would stand a better chance of staying away if I had another man... Lame I know. I cheated on the guy I left my husband for cause I was really wild and going out drinking every night and closing bars down then going to work at 7:45 after only a few hours sleep. I was drunk and horny and the new boyfriend wasn't giving it up enough. Plus I honestly don't think I was really ready for a relationship after the divorce. So I ended it and went on a whore fest... Seriously lots of bar trolling and hooking up with guys... Some I had known for a while and some I barely knew... Then after about 6 months of that I met my now husband and settled down lol. I do feel and about it now but it is what it is.

 

[campn]

I really thought my nausea was mild this time but today I'm feeling it hard. Hungry but nothing sounds good, and I don't feel like cooking anything from scratch either. Carbs are the only thing that don't make me hurl but I feel guilty eating carbs every meal!

 

[Breeaa]

I really thought my nausea was mild this time but today I'm feeling it hard. Hungry but nothing sounds good, and I don't feel like cooking anything from scratch either. Carbs are the only thing that don't make me hurl but I feel guilty eating carbs every meal!

This is exactly how I was. I've gained too much from it already because not only was I eating mostly carbs, I was also starving all the time. Lol

It'll pass soon enough!

 

[campn]

I really thought my nausea was mild this time but today I'm feeling it hard. Hungry but nothing sounds good, and I don't feel like cooking anything from scratch either. Carbs are the only thing that don't make me hurl but I feel guilty eating carbs every meal!

This is exactly how I was. I've gained too much from it already because not only was I eating mostly carbs, I was also starving all the time. Lol

It'll pass soon enough!

Bree this makes me feel better about my recent eating habits. I guess whatever it takes to survive the first trimester!