Ilana is a big girl and well established on solids. She is still breastfed and I pump during the day (I work full time) so she has a bottle during the day (only a small one as she hates drinking milk from a bottle/beaker). Her morning porridge is made with EBM and she has yoghurt in the day, plus a big feed in the morning and two big evening feeds. This should be enough milk according to the HVs etc, but she wakes a lot during the night to feed still.
She can self settle to go to sleep in the evening and if you catch her stirring you can usually settle her quickly - but in the night obviously it takes me a while to hear her, by which point she's wide awake. The only way to get her back to sleep is to feed her (and I'm grateful this even works really as all last week nothing did and one night she was awake from 2-5.30am!)
We kind of co-sleep (her cot is next to the bed with the side off, and she starts in that but ends up with me after the first night feed at 1ish) and from that point on once she wakes she roots for the boob and needs it to settle. If I try putting her in her cot after it though, she just wakes up and cries.
CIO/CC is not an option - should I just live with it for now and hope it gets better in the end?
She can self settle to go to sleep in the evening and if you catch her stirring you can usually settle her quickly - but in the night obviously it takes me a while to hear her, by which point she's wide awake. The only way to get her back to sleep is to feed her (and I'm grateful this even works really as all last week nothing did and one night she was awake from 2-5.30am!)
We kind of co-sleep (her cot is next to the bed with the side off, and she starts in that but ends up with me after the first night feed at 1ish) and from that point on once she wakes she roots for the boob and needs it to settle. If I try putting her in her cot after it though, she just wakes up and cries.
CIO/CC is not an option - should I just live with it for now and hope it gets better in the end?