wlovew
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I'm due September 12 and unfortunately I am not with the father of my baby. We don't even get along. I can't stand him. He's not on board with this at all and doesn't want the baby, even though he says he will do his part. F HIM. So I don't really have anybody to be my birth partner through the delivery. My mom says she will be there, but I don't even know if I want her there... Love her a lot but I'm having issues with her alcoholism lately and she said she won't stay with me the week after baby is born if I don't let her drink. Well, you're not fucking drinking so don't plan to come, mom. I have a few girlfriends who said they will be there but one of them is totally against seeing anything gross and the other is going through some mid-life crisis shit right now and kind of losing her mind so I don't feel like I will be able to even rely on her to physically be there, let alone be able to be a birth parther/coach. I emailed some local doulas and they all want their full prices of $1800-$2000 as if I'm getting the whole prenatal care package, but all I want is someone there during the birth who can keep me focused. I'm starting to think I'll be doing this alone....