Going crazy

[honeybunch2k7]

What protection do u use?

We mostly use FAB more specifically the calendar method. Actually, lately there hasn't been much of a need since we've only been having sex once or twice (if I'm lucky) a month.

 

[hoping4willow]

I think you should do what is in your heart. If you want a baby, and your man does too, just do what feels right?! Think of it this way, if you wait, and put it off, something "could" happen and then all hope is lost, i should know, i'm going through it now. If your gut instinct says do it now, i would strongly advise doing so. Life is short and you never know what the future may hold.

 

[porkpie1981]

We mostly use FAB more specifically the calendar method. Actually, lately there hasn't been much of a need since we've only been having sex once or twice (if I'm lucky) a month.

Right we need to get him drunk thats my plan

 

[Sambatiki]

Right we need to get him drunk thats my plan

Are you getting all crafty again porkpie!!

 

[owo]

We mostly use FAB more specifically the calendar method. Actually, lately there hasn't been much of a need since we've only been having sex once or twice (if I'm lucky) a month.

I think this is quite common in any long term relationship (that's what i keep telling myself anyway )
We definetely had to ramp it up when we started TTCing.

 

[porkpie1981]

Are you getting all crafty again porkpie!!

u know me too well

 

[honeybunch2k7]

Right we need to get him drunk thats my plan

Lol sounds like a plan!

 

[Sambatiki]

Getting is always the plan!!!

 

[honeybunch2k7]

Then again, OH does drink and he uses that as an excuse not to have sex with me.

 

[Sambatiki]

What as an excuse NOT to have ????

 

[honeybunch2k7]

What as an excuse NOT to have ????

That he's been drinking
or he's sick
or he's just not in the mood
or that he has a headache


yadda yadda yadda

 

[honeybunch2k7]

OH and I are having relationship issues. I have decided for now to cancel plans to TTC.

 

[porkpie1981]

OH and I are having relationship issues. I have decided for now to cancel plans to TTC.

I hope all is sorted soon

 

[Alchemist]

OH and I are having relationship issues. I have decided for now to cancel plans to TTC.

Hey babe, sorry to hear that but its the wise way forward (I know)...it will all work out, just keep positive - and talk talk talk with your OH!!!!

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi Honeybunch,

Im so sorry that you and OH are having problems at the moment. Im very sure it'll workout for you soon. But in the meantime if you need to rant we're all here to support you.



Kerry xxx

 

[LeaArr]

Take care of yourself girl.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

For one thing he was as excited about trying to TTC, which hurt me a lot.

He's talking about waiting 3 whole years.

 

[porkpie1981]

For one thing he was as excited about trying to TTC, which hurt me a lot.

He's talking about waiting 3 whole years.

I soujd like a righ troiuble maker but have u cried in front of him etc? Or something to make him really listen?

 

[honeybunch2k7]

^I could try that...

 

[porkpie1981]

^I could try that...

I have been crying now and again tho i really was crying and just generally depressed so i think he has listened