Going for d&c on Friday :( *UPDATE*

[Omi]

Just wanted to say sorry and to add that my d&c (feb 22nd) was the best part of the whole sad story. I felt brand new afterwards ( and i was in such excrutiating pain at this point as started to mc the same day..and having known for a week i had a missed mc, i called epau myself and asked for it. They booked me in but gave me a scan again before hand, as a precaution) ..all in all it was such a relief feeling i could move on after...

The staff was lovely and the procedure went great. I had a sore tummy the next day and bleeding for 4 days after. I treated myself with a glass of wine..

As raw as you feel right now, i promise you you will feel better, just take any time out you need and do what feels right for you..

I hope you will get some closure and also, all the best for the future, love!

, Omi xxx

 

[MrsAC]

I have to agree with you Omi I was so scared to have it done but afterwards I was finally glad it was all over. Even though its such a horrible thing that happened I can finally move on, been through hell these past months.

I never made it to the hospital on the friday, woke up and was being sick and felt awful, they told me to stay at home and rescheduled it for monday. I started really bleeding that day and for the rest of the weekend. Sunday was the worst I cannot believe how much blood and clots there was, and the pain was awful. Anyway I was certain I must of miscarried it all, but when they scanned me at the hospital I couldnt believe it the sac was still there! so had the d&c done straight away. Woke up in agony but they gave me some good painkillers! Im still bleeding a bit which I hope stops soon!

thanks everyone for all ur support xxx

 

[NikiJJones]

Glad that you are feeling that you can move on now.
We are all here for you any time you need us.
You've been so brave.
Sending hugs.
xxxx

 

[dizzyhev]

Well its definite I have had a missed miscarriage. Have had scans since 5 weeks there was a bit of growth but the baby was never seen and yesterday the sac was collapsing. Havent had any bleeding or anymore cramps so have decided to have d&c. I cant wait any longer just want some closure on this now. The thing is i really wanted it to happen naturally thats why I have waited this long. Really scared of going into hospital, can anyone tell me what to expect?

Thanks xxx

i really hope you dont mind me asking, i am suppose to have my scan tomorrow, i had one at 6w5 they only saw sac and yolk, had a brown bleed after naughtys, hospital, hcgs were going up still, went for a private scan and she said she thought it wouldnt be viable... some echoes in sac and no fetal pole, im around 7-8 weeks now with tilted uter.. anyway, i was going to postpone my scan tomorow as my oh cant be there. I havent had any blood or real pain just felt ropey all week. im so worried theyll tell me theres nothing and im worried about when it will all happen. Im so sorry about your loss, i really hope you dont mind me askin if your symtoms were the same
xx

 

[MrsAC]

i really hope you dont mind me asking, i am suppose to have my scan tomorrow, i had one at 6w5 they only saw sac and yolk, had a brown bleed after naughtys, hospital, hcgs were going up still, went for a private scan and she said she thought it wouldnt be viable... some echoes in sac and no fetal pole, im around 7-8 weeks now with tilted uter.. anyway, i was going to postpone my scan tomorow as my oh cant be there. I havent had any blood or real pain just felt ropey all week. im so worried theyll tell me theres nothing and im worried about when it will all happen. Im so sorry about your loss, i really hope you dont mind me askin if your symtoms were the same
xx

Hey hun it sounds like you will be fine, and that its just too early to see anything. Did you go for your scan today???
When I went for my 1st scan I should of been 8 weeks but the sac only measured 5 weeks and they saw yolk sac. So was told I could just have my dates wrong. My next scan the sac had grown but nothing could be seen in it. went bak after 2 weeks still nothing and the sac was collapsing. said I would wait to see if I miscarriage naturally. Kept going back for scans but still no change so it was confirmed I had a blighted ovum. I bled alot last weekend and thought I had miscarried. But when I went for the scan on Monday the sac was still hanging on in there so I opted for a d&c.

let us know how you get on,im sure everything will be ok hun xxx

 

[dizzyhev]

hey, thanks for replying to that i really appreciate you sharing your experience with me. After i read your post i lay in bed with my boyfriend in tears worrying, his boss wouldnt allow him time off today so we made the decision to delay the scan until tuesday, as it may be the last time he'll be able to see anything.

i dont have any pain whatsoever, i look a wreck, very spotty..never get spots.
I had my last blood test sunday, so i dont really know whats going on in my body right now.

Im worried they'll say i have a blighted ovum, as i went at 6w5 the sac measure 5w2 i went back a week later it measured 22mm which they said was 7 weeks. So im very unsure, i could be 8 weeksish now.
Im very nervous.. did you experience any weird stuff ? xx

 

[niknaknat]

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[jonnanne3]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[MrsAC]

hey, thanks for replying to that i really appreciate you sharing your experience with me. After i read your post i lay in bed with my boyfriend in tears worrying, his boss wouldnt allow him time off today so we made the decision to delay the scan until tuesday, as it may be the last time he'll be able to see anything.

i dont have any pain whatsoever, i look a wreck, very spotty..never get spots.
I had my last blood test sunday, so i dont really know whats going on in my body right now.

Im worried they'll say i have a blighted ovum, as i went at 6w5 the sac measure 5w2 i went back a week later it measured 22mm which they said was 7 weeks. So im very unsure, i could be 8 weeksish now.
Im very nervous.. did you experience any weird stuff ? xx

Hun I know its easier said than done but try not to worry. The sac is growing so thats good and the baby is so tiny and with ur tilted uterus it can make it harder to see. Thats why I waited so long because there is the chance they can misdiagnose it, and I thought if its not meant to be my body will reject it and it will happen naturally. I still felt very pregnant right up until I started bleedin then had the d&c. Im sure everything will be fine, they could see by my scan that the sac was a weird shape and collapsing so I knew it wasnt meant to be this time. They never gave me blood tests either, so if your levels are still going up then thats good aswell. I know the waiting is hard, I waited about 6 weeks in total before I knew there was no hope. Goodluck for Tuesday just try and relax and enjoy ur weekend, make sure ur boyfriend looks after u! If you need to chat im here for you xxx

 

[dizzyhev]

thank you, its very hard to try and keep a straight mind, iv spent all week at home by myself and i think thats the worst thing as i feel very lonely and am shutting myself off to everyone, its very emotionally draining.
Im hoping so much its there on tuesday. i guess theres nothin tell tale to notice ill just have to wait.
Thanks again, I hope your doing ok xx

 

[shimmyshimmy]