Lottie86
Mummy to Findlay & Iona
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The amount of people that have seen Findlay and said to me 'awwww how many days old is he?' and when I tell them how old he is I get the 'oh but he's so tiny' and when I say that he was 5 weeks prem they start saying 'you are so lucky you didn't have to wait the full time, it's terrible when you go overdue and have to wait I wish I had had mine 5 weeks early'
I am *THIS* close to having a rant at the next person that says it and point out to them that what is actually terrible is your baby nearly dying because your placenta wouldn't behave, having to go home and leave your baby in the hospital, spending 2 1/2 weeks in NICU and SCBU, only being at home with baby for 4 1/2 weeks before they are 999'd into hospital with a core temp of 28C and their organs shutting down and the docs thinking they wouldn't survive the night due to their little body not being able to cope with the lung infection they got because their lungs aren't that strong and then spending a week in intensive care with blood transfusions and a further week in the children's ward having a v close eye kept plus all the backwards and forwards to hospital for various check ups on their weight, their heart etc.
I wouldn't wish a prem baby on anyone so why on earth don't people think before they make comments?
I know that Findlay has had it soooo much easier than a lot of babies on here so I really dread to think how mad it must drive the rest of you.
I am *THIS* close to having a rant at the next person that says it and point out to them that what is actually terrible is your baby nearly dying because your placenta wouldn't behave, having to go home and leave your baby in the hospital, spending 2 1/2 weeks in NICU and SCBU, only being at home with baby for 4 1/2 weeks before they are 999'd into hospital with a core temp of 28C and their organs shutting down and the docs thinking they wouldn't survive the night due to their little body not being able to cope with the lung infection they got because their lungs aren't that strong and then spending a week in intensive care with blood transfusions and a further week in the children's ward having a v close eye kept plus all the backwards and forwards to hospital for various check ups on their weight, their heart etc.
I wouldn't wish a prem baby on anyone so why on earth don't people think before they make comments?
I know that Findlay has had it soooo much easier than a lot of babies on here so I really dread to think how mad it must drive the rest of you.