Happy holidays

[Garnet]

morning everyone

I've just got work, work, and more work for today

Well that sucks, sounds like too much Work for you. Did you drop kick that crazy lady yet at work?

 

[Desperado167]

Missing you all so much . Happy one year today to the thread . Still having problems and am so sorry but it's just impossible atm to keep posting . love you all lots and lots ❤❤❤❤❤

 

[Jennjenn]

Garnet- our work never ends! I'm drinking tea and dreading getting ready for work! Wish I could stay home today, but I am all out of vacation. Way too hot to be anywhere but in the AC.

 

[Jax41]

Oh T!!!

Dylis, nice to see I'm not alone

Butterfly, did you get a nosebleed sitting all the way up there in orbit?

Milty, pah to the work

Garnet, I'm doing the same today, bit of housework etc, off on more holidays on Thursday, to the beach and the sun's gonna come out over here too

AFM, didn't go well at the dox this morning, in fact I think I'm getting to the end of the road here (even though she told me not to give up). DH's SA was worse than last time, my bloods were all fine and as she can find no diagnosis for me will not refer me to the FS. Don't get that bit at all I didn't know she needed a 'diagnosis' other than 'you can't get preg' to send me? Anyway, she said DH should go to his Dr to be referred to a urologist (yep, I can see you rolling your eyes Liz!) and then to go back to her when he is ready and she will refer me to a private clinic which we will have to self fund - basically I/we need assisted. We've got no money, this isn't an option. She told me not to pay to have a hypothingamybob privately as they can do more harm than good....but how do I know that I haven't got a problem too Gah, I dunno what to do

 

[Garnet]

Missing you all so much . Happy one year today to the thread . Still having problems and am so sorry but it's just impossible atm to keep posting . love you all lots and lots ❤❤❤❤❤

We miss you too

 

[LLbean]

Oh T!!!

Dylis, nice to see I'm not alone

Butterfly, did you get a nosebleed sitting all the way up there in orbit?

Milty, pah to the work

Garnet, I'm doing the same today, bit of housework etc, off on more holidays on Thursday, to the beach and the sun's gonna come out over here too

AFM, didn't go well at the dox this morning, in fact I think I'm getting to the end of the road here (even though she told me not to give up). DH's SA was worse than last time, my bloods were all fine and as she can find no diagnosis for me will not refer me to the FS. Don't get that bit at all I didn't know she needed a 'diagnosis' other than 'you can't get preg' to send me? Anyway, she said DH should go to his Dr to be referred to a urologist (yep, I can see you rolling your eyes Liz!) and then to go back to her when he is ready and she will refer me to a private clinic which we will have to self fund - basically I/we need assisted. We've got no money, this isn't an option. She told me not to pay to have a hypothingamybob privately as they can do more harm than good....but how do I know that I haven't got a problem too Gah, I dunno what to do

the ONLY thing I can think of that the Urologist will do (other than another SA lol) is IF he is clogged up (varicocelle or something) they can go in and get the sperm but still would have to be kind of like IVF to do that.

Honestly our Urologist was garbage so perhaps the ones there are better. Give it a go and see. Who knows

 

[Jax41]

I never thought to ask her what a urologist here would do for him I dunno, am in two minds.....we are not going IVF way so maybe they won't do anything I've not told him yet, he's not asked (even though he knows I went this morning), same old DH!! I gotta think about this and then decide....x

 

[LLbean]

maybe like an IUI???

 

[Jennjenn]

Jax - I'm not coming up against a brick wall as well and I think I'll ask DH to start taking some vitamins - coq10 and L-arginine. Both are supposed to be good for sperm health. It's about the only thing I think he will agree to as he said no to IVF 2 years ago...if he says no, I'm pretty sure the game is over.

 

[wana b a mom]

hello gals!

despie, we miss you!!!

sorry I've been MIA. DH and I went to FL to look for homes as we are moving south in the fall. We came back this morning (2:00 am) as or plane was delayed last night leaving Fort Lauderdale (crazy)... so anyway, I did another FRER yesterday while in FL and the line turned dark immediately. Today I went for the beta; the nurse called at noon to confirm the results: we are pregnant!! beta was 454. Second beta is on Wednesday. Please, keep your fingers crossed so it is good news! I don't want to sound crazy, but I'm just so afraid that something could go wrong... I want to try to enjoy the fact that we are expecting, but the bad thoughts are stuck in the back of my mind, you know?.. ughhh...

 

[Butterfly67]

Wana B, was just thinking you were having your beta today, that is great news, but I know what you mean about being cautious, it is only natural Fingers crossed that the second beta comes out ggod, the first number was great so there isn't any reason that it shouldn't

T

Jax, damn about the SA but the first one was not bad so maybe it just changes a bit from time to time. Would DH take multi vits? The wellman conception seem to be good ones that have everything you need and he would only have to take one a day I don't know why they will not refer you for the HSG and that is BS about it doing more harm than good otherwise why would the whole of the rest of the world be doing it?!

 

[wana b a mom]

thank you butterfly!

garnet, I was thinking about your trouble sleeping... have you read about feng shui? it may sound crazy but if my bed is not properly aligned I have trouble sleeping...

 

[Garnet]

thank you butterfly!

garnet, I was thinking about your trouble sleeping... have you read about feng shui? it may sound crazy but if my bed is not properly aligned I have trouble sleeping...

Yippee,! So exciting! Things will be great for you Well the is not much we can do about the bed cause it has long windows all along one side. I've been taking 1/2 a melation last night and slept well. Woke up at 6:45 this morning. Maybe things will get better

 

[Milty]

morning everyone

I've just got work, work, and more work for today

Well that sucks, sounds like too much Work for you. Did you drop kick that crazy lady yet at work?

Nope she is still there

 

[Milty]

Wanna very exciting

Garnet gals the melatonin is working

 

[Jax41]

Jax - I'm not coming up against a brick wall as well and I think I'll ask DH to start taking some vitamins - coq10 and L-arginine. Both are supposed to be good for sperm health. It's about the only thing I think he will agree to as he said no to IVF 2 years ago...if he says no, I'm pretty sure the game is over.

Jenn, you and me, same boat We have a big fam holiday May next year and DH wants to lose weight and get fit for it. I'm going to milk this in my favour BIG time as I really think losing weight, kicking the booze and finally taking his vits that are gathering dust in the cupboard will help us. And hopefully he'll feel sexy again too 'cos I don't think he is at the mo no matter how hard I try Good luck hun in your quest (we'll get 'em!), I'll be with you all the way!

 

[Jax41]

Jax, damn about the SA but the first one was not bad so maybe it just changes a bit from time to time. Would DH take multi vits? The wellman conception seem to be good ones that have everything you need and he would only have to take one a day I don't know why they will not refer you for the HSG and that is BS about it doing more harm than good otherwise why would the whole of the rest of the world be doing it?!

Hi Butterfly I'm not sure what went wrong with his last SA, we'd been away for our anniversary (with AF ) so unless he got friendly in the shower I dunno we did have a few sherberts or two though Anyway, I'm going to try not to dwell too much on it, and get my man fit and yes I have beaten him into submission about the vits as I've said it will help on so many levels....

I am TOTALLY confused about my Dr's view of the HSG although she has said it to me before (she feels unless there is an NHS diagnosis to have it done ie PCOS etc leave well alone as in her opinon they just inflame and can damage them hey I'm no medic here!) but she seems to think that doing my blood tests is enough diagnosis for me, but I can't get preg ffs! She's put it down to DH's SA, bascially only 26% of them know what they're supposed to be doing, the 74% need a phucking good talking too

 

[Jax41]

Wana b can I do a few of these if I promise to shower you in sticky baby dust



Stick little bean, STICK!!!!!
xXx

 

[dachsundmom]

Ladies, I know I am very late to the party, but :wave: to everyone!

WB:

J, you all know how I feel about PMA, but N's second SA was worse than C's...way worse. The test really could be a one off, but I do sort of understand the doc's views on the HSG, but if you're not convinced, then maybe consider using your provate insurance and have it done. If you don't need it, having it won't hurt anything, but there's no real benefit, either.

For my girls...

 

[LLbean]

welcome back Brooke!