o0oCharlieo0o
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Grrrrr what a day!!!!!! My doctor told me im to do as little as possible, pelvic rest, and relax all i can because of previous miscarriages i think he wants me to just take it real easy, so i have been doing so, but still doing housework just at a slower pace and not doing the harder bits, well anyway this week iv been so amazingly tired and iv been up mega early everyday because my daughter has been waking me up early and my partner who usually gets up to her for me has decided (funnily enough since iv been pregnant) he is going to stay in bed and let me do it, so im shattered, and as hes been working so much i have a lot more to do at home with the kids there is no break, including the weekend he has his son from a previous relationship, well hes gone back to work so im looking after his son tonight too where i cud have had a nice relax, he didnt ask me just told me, anyway i was saying earlier i was so tired but needed to get on with stuff otherwise it will never get done, so he goes and grabs a broom and starts to sweep in the living room (never usually does) as hes doing it there was dog hair and i said 'wouldn't think id hoovered all through yesterday would you' he said 'no ypu wouldnt, its discusting' its not discusting at all infact it looks perfectly fine (hes on one today) so then he goes on to say 'do you actually hoover the skirting boards?' So sarcastically i said no, he goes on to say 'why not? They are dusty' and i said of course i hoover them but i was hoovering in my rush yesterday because his sister in law was on her way round, i also get on my hands and knees and scrub them but i havent because dr told me to be careful, i said to him though 'if you want them clean your welcome to clean them yourself' so he then said 'i dont get the time' so of course i told him he does have the time he just chooses not to use it cleaning skirting boards (he had slept in this morning then sat on his arse all day) and he told me to go fuck myself............ So i had a great big rant off and decided if he wants clean skirtimg boards he can have them and i got a bucket of soapy water and got on my hands and knees to scrub them, (baring in mind im only 6 weeks pregnant so it hasn't been that long since they were done) and all the stressing and scrubbing iv given myself a few little twinge cramps, and my discharge is heavier (tmi sorry)" now im worrying that i stupidly risked my baby over bloody skirting boards, im still so angry im glad hes not here really and I'll go to bed before he gets home i cant be bothered to talk to him, its my daughters 3rd birthday tomoro that will be awkward if we havent sorted it out lol
So anyway sorry i know its a long one, i needed it off my chest, but do you think i could have hurt the baby? What with the tummy cramps?
So anyway sorry i know its a long one, i needed it off my chest, but do you think i could have hurt the baby? What with the tummy cramps?