With my 1st pregnancy we told close family straight away and then told friends after our 12 week scan and didn't mention on FB until after 20 weeks as I was very nervous.
We were following the same pattern when I miscarried but afterwards I told most of my close friends what had happened as I needed their support.
This time we have taken the opposite approach. I don't want to tell close family yet as I don't want them to get their hopes up. But, although I'm not going to broadcast it, I'm not going to hide my pregnancy if anyone asks or there is a time when I have to avoid drinking.
After my miscarriage I think my attitude has changed and I feel like anyone I would tell about my loss, I might as well tell about my pregnancy and celebrate it while I can. Plus I know telling people really helped me get through it last time.
I know some people will be more fearful of telling this time around so was just interested to know if it's changed your approach.
We were following the same pattern when I miscarried but afterwards I told most of my close friends what had happened as I needed their support.
This time we have taken the opposite approach. I don't want to tell close family yet as I don't want them to get their hopes up. But, although I'm not going to broadcast it, I'm not going to hide my pregnancy if anyone asks or there is a time when I have to avoid drinking.
After my miscarriage I think my attitude has changed and I feel like anyone I would tell about my loss, I might as well tell about my pregnancy and celebrate it while I can. Plus I know telling people really helped me get through it last time.
I know some people will be more fearful of telling this time around so was just interested to know if it's changed your approach.