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We had a private gender scan yesterday to be told we are having our 3rd boy. I have been so stressed about finding out the sex and felt so much pressure for a girl and now I just don't know what to do. Everyone has been convinced it's a girl as they were with my second. I love my boys and feel bad for not being over the moon about this baby being a boy but I feel bad for my husband who would have liked to father a girl, for my parents who only have grandsons and a little cheated myself that I will never have a daughter. Also I feel I cannot share my feelings with anyone as they will think I don't want his baby. The guilt is eating me. I do hope this feeling passes but feeling a little bitter right now