Beccaboop
Mummy to Jacob
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So my son is 4 and I've just had a gender scan and found out in having another boy!
We always said we only wanted 2 children and Ive had hypermesis in both of my pregnancies and really don't want to be pregnant ever again so this is my last baby and I really hoped it was a girl!
I feel sad for the things I'll never have like a special mother/daughter relationship, a child that looks like me, someone to do girly things with now and in the future!
I feel like I'm just going to be left out now while the boys are busy doing boy things that I don't enjoy like any kind of sport and computer games!
I'll never help my daughter go wedding dress shopping or be there for her own pregnancy
We're currently at a indoor play area and my son wanted daddy to play with him as he always does and I'm sat alone on my phone! I try to join in but it's always daddy he wants.
When it's just the 2 of us at home and oh is at work he's constantly asking when daddy is coming home and telling me he misses him.
Will both my boys want daddy and not mummy forever now?
We always said we only wanted 2 children and Ive had hypermesis in both of my pregnancies and really don't want to be pregnant ever again so this is my last baby and I really hoped it was a girl!
I feel sad for the things I'll never have like a special mother/daughter relationship, a child that looks like me, someone to do girly things with now and in the future!
I feel like I'm just going to be left out now while the boys are busy doing boy things that I don't enjoy like any kind of sport and computer games!
I'll never help my daughter go wedding dress shopping or be there for her own pregnancy
We're currently at a indoor play area and my son wanted daddy to play with him as he always does and I'm sat alone on my phone! I try to join in but it's always daddy he wants.
When it's just the 2 of us at home and oh is at work he's constantly asking when daddy is coming home and telling me he misses him.
Will both my boys want daddy and not mummy forever now?