Hey everyone, Well i've still not had my period and i'm now 12 days late but not pregnant I went the doctors on Monday, felt quite positive. Saw a nice doctor and spoke like i was pregnant and it was so nice Talked of what i shouldn't eat and how i should book an app with the midwife once my pregnancy is confirmed. So he told me to wee in a cup and get it sent to the hospital. In the morning i did a test myself just to see the and there wasn't one I got sad and decided there wasn't much point in sending a sample to the hospital (regret that now) On Monday night me and O.H and it hurt quite a bit and there was some blood. This has happened before so in the morning i booked an app with the doctors again. This doctor (a different one to Mondays) was an absolute cow she spoke to me like a piece of crap, when i told her about the pain and bleeding and missed period she just said to leave it a few months and that was it? No advice, no checkup. She even spent a good 5 minutes reading all my appointment history! I was quite upset with this and o.h was pissed off! So we booked another app with a different doctor. Saw her yesterday and O.H came in with me. I told her exactly what i told the second doctor, she did a examination. It was so painful i nearly started crying So she is now going to take some swabs etc. She doesn't think i'm pregnant but has asked me to send a sample to the hospital anyway, just so we can be sure. I sent that this morning and will get those results on Monday or Tuesday so then we can go from there But, when we were in the doctors my O.H was looking at the screen as the doctor was and saw a comment written by the second doctor, it said 'Is only 19 and husband is 32' Why 'only' 19? And i really don't think it matters how old my O.H is? I'm, so nervous about the swabs, it hurt so bad when she did the examination. But at least something is being done.