Hey hun x!
Sorry for the late response- been a busy day! I always have my fingers crossed for you hun, HCGs are so annoying arent they? But its hard to not want to get them tested- especially if there seems to be a "problem". I wouldnt stress off it too much. Lets see.. if I remember correctly.. around the 4th week closer to the fifth I was about 200. Then about 30 hours later (because I went to the ER) they only went up 74. The doctor was pretty sure I was going to miscarry because he said my numbers were low, and they were rising so slowly. Then they thought I had an ectopic because there was fluid in my tubes but that was ruled out. I finally got an appointment with midwife- which started earlier b/c of my previous miscarriage. The numbers over the next three days only doubled which was still low. Then around 7 weeks they shot up quickly! They were soon in the thousands and climbing. Around 9 weeks I was about 30 thousand!
Now that I am 14 weeks the level of HCG is decreasing. Around 8-11 weeks the placenta is starting to form which makes the hormone level peak at around 11 weeks and then start to decline- I didnt know that so I went mad from worry haha.
This pregnancy does feel a little different though- I am only 14 weeks so I dont know the sex yet- I am hoping for a girl but either will be amazing
It is hard to say if it is different from my miscarriage symptoms because with my first born I had no symptoms at all. The second pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage I had some stomach issues then they quickly faded, and I had lower back pain that was constant.. here is a little TMI but if you can handle it lol.. I first started spotting dark red blood. It was not brown blood but it was dark. It kept happening. I went to the doctors and they said- all is fine there is a Heart Beat but your levels are low. Just rest and relax- odds of miscarriage are low after seeing a heartbeat. I knew however in my heart that it wasnt right. So, I kept bleeding.. and the day I went to take a shower I just broke down. I went back to the hospital, I knew the baby had passed. The nurse was sure of it to and she gave me an IV with pain killers, and I think from being relaxed off the muscle relaxers/pain killers it finally allowed my cervix to open up and expel the baby. I had the miscarriage as soon as the technician started the ultrasound. It is still hard and breaks my heart- but live continues on and you can just hope and try again. Pregnancy is hard (i think women lie when they say everything is perfect and they arent worried! haha).
One thing my midwife tells me is do just relax, I dont hold the reigns anymore. The baby and my body has completely taken over and I have nothing to do with it anymore except to eat/live healthy, and go to checkups.
Please keep in touch- I think about you alot!