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the father of the baby is getting overwhelmed with his sexual desires but i dont want to make love because if or whenever spotting does occur from it, although its normal, i get completely freaked out by it. ive only spotted tan whenever it happened but oh my gosh its horrible for me even if they're tiny spots. he understands this and agrees with me but he doesn't support masturbation for himself to help cope on his own. it's like a inner spiritual level thing for him not to masturbate/use pornography, i think is what he explained to me a long time ago. i have always supported his feelings on this completely.
if anyone else is having similar problems like this, can you tell me how you helped your man cope with his sexual desires? i don't want to do anything sexual at all. i have had little-to-no libido for the last three weeks. i feel bad about this sometimes because it's like i have the power to control how he feels as in i could easily let this happen but i wont even though doctor said what we used to do was safe.
if anyone else is having similar problems like this, can you tell me how you helped your man cope with his sexual desires? i don't want to do anything sexual at all. i have had little-to-no libido for the last three weeks. i feel bad about this sometimes because it's like i have the power to control how he feels as in i could easily let this happen but i wont even though doctor said what we used to do was safe.