MsEmski
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Hullo all!
Just in need of a bit of advice. I've a HV coming to see us next week. I quite liked my first one, she was supportive, never judgemental & offered practical tips.
However, I had the "weaning visit" from some other woman at 4 months, who proceeded to open forcefully & judgementally with "where is he sleeping" and then a lecture on the dangers (?!) of co-sleeping... Not a word about weaning!
This next one is new to me & I'm presuming that they've written it in red all over my file that we ho-sleep... Anyone got any tips on how to deal with the issue should it arise? Normally I'd argue, but I can't be bothered- I think I just want her in and out. And will decide if I want to see her again afterwards.
How do I do diplomatic & informative without being controversial?
Just in need of a bit of advice. I've a HV coming to see us next week. I quite liked my first one, she was supportive, never judgemental & offered practical tips.
However, I had the "weaning visit" from some other woman at 4 months, who proceeded to open forcefully & judgementally with "where is he sleeping" and then a lecture on the dangers (?!) of co-sleeping... Not a word about weaning!
This next one is new to me & I'm presuming that they've written it in red all over my file that we ho-sleep... Anyone got any tips on how to deal with the issue should it arise? Normally I'd argue, but I can't be bothered- I think I just want her in and out. And will decide if I want to see her again afterwards.
How do I do diplomatic & informative without being controversial?