Hi, I'm the new girl and just finding my feet.....there's so much to go to here!! Don't really know where to start. Had been recommended the site by a nice sounding girl I chatted to on Babycentre.co.uk, and thought id give it a go too. I had a miscarriage in June this year and feel pretty much like I've come to terms with what happened now, I can talk about it, which is a big step. Lately I have been focusing on my 'most fertile days' and every month ...nothing...'cept a bloody heavy period! Yeah, thanks for that!! Getting to the point where the whole loving thing is getting to be a pre planned mission impossible. Does any one have any advice they can share...I would be so grateful. Thanks. Steph.