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[his_softy]

ok so I am 18. my bf and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job and then her put it away so he got cum on his hand. in the heat of the moment, we cant remember if he wiped it off or not. after that he fingered me and put his finger in pretty deep. according to a counsuler i talked to online, i could be pregnant. i guess i need to know if u all know anyone that has had this happen to them. also, i am taking a test tomorrow. it will be 4 days before my period. i am taking the FIRST RESPONSE® EARLY RESULT PREGNANCY TEST that claims to be 69% accurate 4 days before your period, which will be tomorrow for me. i'm so worried and i don't want to be pregnant. it would be due when i'm supposed to go to college. help!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ablaze]

i doubt very much u cud be pregnant from a hand job then fingering

 

[his_softy]

they said you could tho!!!!! im nervous.

 

[CherryBlossom]

i very much doubt it hun xxx

 

[ablaze]

sperm cant live in an outside enviroment!

the chances of it surviving are very little

 

[Tilly]

I doubt it too, but personally.. id wait until the day my period was due.

Try not to worry yourself, im sure all will be fine and the chances would be so low.

 

[lynz]

i doubt it hun if it was that easy to get pregnant you wouldnt have people ttc for months and months

 

[coccyx]

Had alook on netdoctor...... seminal fluid dries out very quickly once outside the body and once dried the sperm die. The doctor answering the question had never come across anyone getting pregnant this way. Try not to worry

 

[his_softy]

i hope u all are right. i want kids eventually but just not right now. i mean i'll be like a breeding machine when i get married. i love kids. i want to have a family of my own. just not now.

 

[ablaze]

pleasent way to say it "breeding machine"

 

[Samo]

they said you could tho!!!!! im nervous.

there is ALWAYS a chance, even if it's a .001% chance, professionals will tell you "it could happen". However, it seems very unlikely that you would fall pregnant from what you've described. If semen was left on his fingers when he inserted into you, there's a whole mess of other things those sperm need to get through in order to fertilize an egg. Also, if this scenario happened outside of your most fertile days (ovulation) your chances of becoming pregnant are even less.

I hate to sound cliche but be careful and use protection to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Good luck sweetie!

 

[xarlenex]

If it happen within the past 3 days and you are really that worried you could get the emergency contraceptive pill..?

 

[his_softy]

i cant do that. here is a quote from that net doctor site

Question

My boyfriend and I have just taken our relationship a step further and we are getting into foreplay.

Being a virgin I was just wondering what the risks of getting pregnant are from this, especially if my boyfriend comes on my hands and I put my them near or into my vagina.

Also could you suggest the best forms of contraception for us, as I want to take control of my own destiny and don’t want to end up in a sticky situation?

Answer

Well, the risk from the sort of love play you describe is not all that great, but pregnancy can occasionally occur if the guy's sex fluid gets onto the opening of the vagina. So take great care.

 

[his_softy]

do u think the test i take tomorrow will be accurate enough?

 

[miel]

i think if you are suppose to have your period in 3 days and just had intercourse recently i think you were not in your ovulation cycle.
do not worry . take the test and see from there.
but i will take SAMO advice be careful and use protection to prevent unwanted pregnancies .
good luck and let's us know. PS: closer you wait to the date of your periods to take the early test more accurate the test will be .

 

[xarlenex]

How long ago did this actually happen?

 

[Tilly]

Seems like a sticky situation already cropped up

Seriously though, try not to worry and yea when did this happen?

 

[his_softy]

um he only fingered me and it happened on friday but he had cum on his hand.

 

[miel]

do you have regular period ? and how long are you cycle ?

 

[his_softy]

come on u guys HELP!