Help, cant work out my due date

[Mervs Mum]

Make sure you kick off with them in the morning. I was going spare yesterday and the receptionist started with 'the test results arent back yet'
So I rang the path lab at the hospital to check if they'd been done and yes they had and the surgery had them from 8am. I rang them back and told them and they then kept giving me the 'oh he's behind with surgery/they're in a meeting/blah blah' rountine. Finally at 4pm I lost my rag with her and said 'I'm pregnant and these tests are to reassure me and stop me worrying and this is making me worse!!'

The Dr rang within 5 mins....I think it's what's known in the sales trade as being 'a screamer'.........it worked.

x

 

[Mervs Mum]

Ps - I'll say a little prayer tonight hun. x

 

[MimiUK]

i will deffo become a screamer when all this is through he he

i get my results from the EPU so they tend to be quite quick. I just deal with them now not my gp at all which is great actually. i am never quite sure how much they know about anything.... seem a bit jack of all trades.

i will let you know first thing

 

[MimiUK]

Results back... not good only 650

16/2 - 210
18/2 - 220
20/2 - 320
23/2 - 550
26/2 - 650

really slow and low so is looking very likley ectopic according to the hospital. I go in again tomorrow for more bloods and another scan.

I was really upset last night, i guess i am going to have to come to terms with this. i have been clinging onto a little bit of hope that my bean was safe. I am absolutley gutted.

thanks for all your support ladies xx

 

[Vivanco]

Ahh honey i am so sorry!! I was hoping for you!! Really must be awful for you, dont think there is anything i can say to make you feel any less hurt, thoughts are with you x x x x x x x

 

[Mervs Mum]

Dont lose hope just yet hun. My sisters numbers didnt double and they were really worried as was she. She had early scans etc and went on to have a totally normal pregnancy and Seth is absolutely thriving.
I'm still praying for you. x

 

[MimiUK]

thanks mervs mum and vivanco you ladies always seem to know the right things to say

 

[Mervs Mum]

Hey Mimi.

What time is your appointment today?

Good luck darling x

 

[Ann-Marie]

 

[Charliepops]

GOOD LUCK!!

 

[gde78]

I've just read your thread and wanted to add my thoughts and prayers for you. I've got everything crossed for you. Good luck honey.

 

[Mervs Mum]

How did you get on today Mimi?
x

 

[MimiUK]

hi ladies. i am replying to this on the patientline computer thing in my hospital bed. i was rushed in as an emergency surgery. turns out the cyst was actually the ectopic pregnancy about to bust. as i want the surgery keyhole and i had eaten i have to wait till first thing in the morning. and there was a car accident in the main theatre. i will lose one of my tubes to and possibly an ovary. they are amazed it has got to 6 cm without busting. so i just have to lie here still and hope nothing ruptures before tomorrow.

please all of you look after your litter beans they are the most special things in the world. i just hope one day it will be my turn to be a mummy. love to you all!

mimi xxx

 

[Nikkinoonoo]

Aww Mimi so sorry, hope you are home soon xXx

 

[Vivanco]

Oh no sweetheart i am sat here in tears for you i cant believ it u poor poor thing. my heart goes out to you, thinking of you i am so so sorry x x x x

 

[MimiUK]

thank you all! this has been the hardest thing i have ever been through and this forum has been a life saver for me to get it all out. it is hard to talk about to those who don't understand. please don't be sad for me i am just thankful i am here and ok. and a quick one to anne marie. yes i am feeling the love. this has made me realise just how much i love my boyfriend he is the most amazing man on the planet and i am so lucky to have him. if assures me that i will be back in this forum before i know it! me and my one tube! lets hope it's a good'en xx

 

[Vivanco]

You are an inspiration, thinking of you x x x

 

[Ann-Marie]

Mimi, I'm really sorry for your loss. You sound like you have fantastic support there with you, and we are all here for you too. Don't be a stranger. Take care, and rest up there. Thinking of you

 

[Mervs Mum]

Oh Mimi! I've just got in and came straight to check on you. So sorry its not worked out darling Hope they get you sorted quickly and you can be back on your feet as soon as poss.

Sending you healing thoughts. xxx

 

[beccaknapp]

all my thoughts and prayers are with you and your boyfriend. I went through something very similar to you in May last year, and I understand how much it hurts to lose a baby like that. I had the operation and had to have some drug treatment afterwards too, which meant we couldn't try for a further three months, but there is hope; thinking of you.
x