Hi, Haven't posted on here for a while but I'm desperate for some help. I had my second baby late September last year and I have shifted most of my baby weight but I am really struggling with it. My eldest has just turned four. I'm really unhappy with my body after two kids. My self esteem is low and it's effecting my confidence now. I have tried to diet and to exercise but i just can't seem to keep up with it. A month is the longest I've stuck to it. I think I need a buddy or just someone to motivate and tell me I can do it when I feel like reaching for a chocolate bar!! The worst bit and what has motivated me to try again is that we flew home from Spain last night and a lady on the plane asked me when my next was due That really made me feel awful. I don't want to loose much but just enough to get rid of this awful mummy tummy I have gained. The goal is to tone everything up and feel like me again. Anyone on here feel like giving me a kick up the backside?