LNWXO
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Hi everyone!
I never expected to be back here. Ever to be honest.
Bit of a back story...
I have suffered recurrent miscarriages since 2012, and in 2015 I fell pregnant with my first son. I then suffered PND and anxiety. Swore I would never have another baby as I much as I loved my son so much I was just far too scared to feel like that again. 2019 was a huge turning point, my mental health was good and I all of a sudden decided I was ready for another baby. I had a miscarriage and the following month fell pregnant with my second son who is currently nearly 10mo. Now... on Saturday I realised I was 4 days late on my period... absolutely petrified. But I thought... well I doubt il be pregnant that sorta thing just doesn’t happen to me. I have had to TRYYYYY to get my babies.
Well... I took a test and positive. I was and still am in so much shock.
I’m so stuck. I have been adamant for a couple of days that the best thing to do for me and our family is to end the pregnancy. But deep down I struggle to believe I’m even saying/thinking this. (I’m all for the choice of abortion) but from someone who has had recurrent miscarriages and who knows just how hard it is to make a baby I just feel like I’m messing with fate.
I’m now second guessing whether that is something we should do?
My husband is feeling the same as me.
Please don’t judge, I really can’t believe I’m in this situation. I feel so stupid as it is.
Someone help me please
I never expected to be back here. Ever to be honest.
Bit of a back story...
I have suffered recurrent miscarriages since 2012, and in 2015 I fell pregnant with my first son. I then suffered PND and anxiety. Swore I would never have another baby as I much as I loved my son so much I was just far too scared to feel like that again. 2019 was a huge turning point, my mental health was good and I all of a sudden decided I was ready for another baby. I had a miscarriage and the following month fell pregnant with my second son who is currently nearly 10mo. Now... on Saturday I realised I was 4 days late on my period... absolutely petrified. But I thought... well I doubt il be pregnant that sorta thing just doesn’t happen to me. I have had to TRYYYYY to get my babies.
Well... I took a test and positive. I was and still am in so much shock.
I’m so stuck. I have been adamant for a couple of days that the best thing to do for me and our family is to end the pregnancy. But deep down I struggle to believe I’m even saying/thinking this. (I’m all for the choice of abortion) but from someone who has had recurrent miscarriages and who knows just how hard it is to make a baby I just feel like I’m messing with fate.
I’m now second guessing whether that is something we should do?
My husband is feeling the same as me.
Please don’t judge, I really can’t believe I’m in this situation. I feel so stupid as it is.
Someone help me please