ready2bamum
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i am so desperate....was released from hospital y-day after a 5 day failed induction resulting in emergency csection. Baby born on 2nd June 9lbs 14 ounce...so 4 days old. Hes georgeous, i am in awe of him, and i want to BF him but this is extreme agony. I basically fed him non stop in the hospital, all day and all night, whenever he wanted the boob he got it. Result, extremely cracked and painfull nipples. Prob a lot to do with trying to get the latch right (this is my first). Anyway y-day i am ready to throw in the towel, the thought of him waking up for a feed is filling me with dread..but the thought of giving him formular kills me to. So i persevere and today i am rewarded with my milk comming in which seemingly is satisfying him more....but OMG...OUCHHHHHHHH......my boobs are so hard and sore, more so now...so again i am feeling like i want to cry with agony during feeds. Little one wants the booby all the time and can be on the boob for upto an hour at the time. He hardly ever comes off on his own, i always have to break latch and this is also painfull. Questions......
Is this agony normal....it literally takes my breath away...what can i do to help the pain in my boobs and nips.
How long should a feed last...i am thinking an hour per boob is too much..so when should i take him off...surely sucking would encourage more milk, and he's not just doing it for comfort?
Should i give him a dummy instead of the boob every now and again at night to sooth him...or when im changing him etc..
What would a good routine of BF a new born look like..i mean should i let him sleep for as long as he likes or wake him...and only let him have a good long feed at night????? in the hope that it sends him to sleep for longer.....???????
I am honestly sooooooooooooo confused.....i look forward to my bed at night and then suddenly remember....you may never sleep again...i have had 1 nights sleep since the 29th when induction began....i am so tired, i feel on the verge of meltdown. MW says keep going and all what i am experiencing is normal..i sit here as my baby sleeps on the sofa and my boobs ache in agony....what can i do. Please help.xxxxxxx
Is this agony normal....it literally takes my breath away...what can i do to help the pain in my boobs and nips.
How long should a feed last...i am thinking an hour per boob is too much..so when should i take him off...surely sucking would encourage more milk, and he's not just doing it for comfort?
Should i give him a dummy instead of the boob every now and again at night to sooth him...or when im changing him etc..
What would a good routine of BF a new born look like..i mean should i let him sleep for as long as he likes or wake him...and only let him have a good long feed at night????? in the hope that it sends him to sleep for longer.....???????
I am honestly sooooooooooooo confused.....i look forward to my bed at night and then suddenly remember....you may never sleep again...i have had 1 nights sleep since the 29th when induction began....i am so tired, i feel on the verge of meltdown. MW says keep going and all what i am experiencing is normal..i sit here as my baby sleeps on the sofa and my boobs ache in agony....what can i do. Please help.xxxxxxx