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[Pinky32]

awww thank you hun

oooooh a date in bed - nice

part of me is really happy, but another part of me is quite sad. someone i thought was a friend is trying to be helpful etc but basically saying that the position im in is wrong

i didnt choose this to happen but what can i do

 

[honeycheeks]

awww thank you hun

oooooh a date in bed - nice

part of me is really happy, but another part of me is quite sad. someone i thought was a friend is trying to be helpful etc but basically saying that the position im in is wrong

i didnt choose this to happen but what can i do

Hey ladies, I am still cramping so bad , that I could pass out. I couldnt even think of getting out of bed for hours after waking in the morning. Been feeling slightly nauseous and very dizzy. I havent seen the face of the wicked witch. I might not be on BnB all day today as I really feel weak enough to pass out any moment. My temps are still high when I woke up, so it would have been a good deal to test straightaway. But I was in excruciating pain that there was nothing else on my mind...Maybe I should make more urine in the day to test. I have been feeling very dehydrated too, I need to be drinking a lot of fluids, so I really dont see what my chances of testing are later in the day.

Pinky, personally I never worry about positions for baby making. Historical data suggests that humans have made babies on kitchen counters and automobiles , so fret not. I never bother to stay in bed after DTD nor try gymnastics to keep the swimmers in. The spermies have a mind of their own. They do know where they are going. I am excited that you get to see OH 2 days in a row. I wont be surprised if I dont see Pinks online on BnB for a couple of day.There is some serious baby making going on there.

Jess, I hope you are well, is there any update?

 

[Pinky32]

awww honey, im sorry that your in so much pain - stay in bed, drink lots of water and sleep as much as possible

dont worry about testing today unless you feel like it later - your health is more important - if theirs a line, it will be there tomorrow

honey - this is why i love you lol when i said "position", i didnt literally mean the position i bd in, i meant the fact that my OH had a baby last year with someone else lol

I have spoken to loads of ladies on bnb who at first glance look like they have the perfect lives but when they confide, you realise its not all perfect, we dont chose to have "less than perfect lives" but sometimes thats the way life goes - you cant help who you love

jess is going to the doctor today and will hopefully have some good news when the blood results come back

in the meantime, stay in bed, get rested, dont let the witch in

to you both

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Awww girl's thank's for the nice comment's but no good news still BFN but doctor's is fully booked for 2 week's and cant wait that long for a blood test so gonna get load's of HPT or IC test's tomorrow and test every other day.

Honey cheek's so to hear you are in load's of pain hun, hope your ok and hope you feel better soon. x x x

Pinky sorry to hear that hun but you've still got us. I do not think your wrong. I think it's love but complicated and Hopefully not for much longer. x x x

Hope you girlie's are ok?

Sending you load's of sticky magical baby dust. x x x

Im off to bed so will update you's in the morning as i have not long been back from mather in law's x x x Love ya's Dont worry i aint a lezzie lol

 

[Pinky32]

yayyy im glad you had a good day away from ttc

you still have to bear in mind that your only 9DPO and the chances of getting a bfp then is very slim

dont buy clear blue tests as they are known for giving false positives or evaps - for the same kind of money get first response

also have a look at brand names such as boots, tesco, superdrug, sainsburys etc - just make sure their either digital or pink dyes

thank you hun for saying that - i know its not the best situation to be in, but its my situation and really hurt when someone said it was wrong

have a good nights sleep and we'll chat tomoz

luv ya 2 xx

 

[honeycheeks]

Hi girls, I am yet to read through the recent posts of yours, just hoping you are fine. Im still in lot of pain, there is no improvement at all. BFN at 16dpo, still no witch, cramping like hell. Used up the only HPT I had left. Going out to buy another one today evening. My DH has been so supportive through all this, yesterday was a day in hell for me.

 

[Pinky32]

awww honey im sorry your still in pain - it gets to a point where you just want something to happen so you know where your at

im glad DH has been there for you

xx

 

[honeycheeks]

awww honey im sorry your still in pain - it gets to a point where you just want something to happen so you know where your at

im glad DH has been there for you

xx

i have noticed today that the pain eases a little for short periods. So today has been better than yesterday... and as long as AF stays away, Im happy. One thing I know for sure is that I ovulated

How have you been Pinks and Jess?

 

[Pinky32]

the lines are dotted not solid though - whys that?

im ok thanks, got a high temp rise, got cramps in pelvic area which is making me feel slightly sick

 

[honeycheeks]

the lines are dotted not solid though - whys that?

im ok thanks, got a high temp rise, got cramps in pelvic area which is making me feel slightly sick

the lines are dotted because I had EWCM even after Ov and i still have it...lol. But I am sure I Ov'd . The Ov pains were bad enough to make me believe I could have multiples this month. And I would not be scaling such heights with my chart, if I dint Ov.

 

[Pinky32]

oh i agree with that, just wondering if it was more like cd18

i cant believe how painful these cramps are, more painful than my af cramps, i was doubled up last night

 

[honeycheeks]

oh i agree with that, just wondering if it was more like cd18

i cant believe how painful these cramps are, more painful than my af cramps, i was doubled up last night

I usually ov on the day i get ov pains. So going by my history, I would think my chart is correct. I wouldnt mind if it was cd 18 either. I just know I DID Ov.
How is the pain for you today?

 

[Pinky32]

haha thats true - who cares when it was, just the fact that its happened haha

the pains still there, i know i ov;d yesterday due to amount of ewcm i was having which today is a lot less, and my temp raise, it seems to hurt more when i sit down, its above my knickerline and very sore

 

[honeycheeks]

haha thats true - who cares when it was, just the fact that its happened haha

the pains still there, i know i ov;d yesterday due to amount of ewcm i was having which today is a lot less, and my temp raise, it seems to hurt more when i sit down, its above my knickerline and very sore

I am baffled by the intensity of pain of ovulation., to drop a tiny egg. I never even knew such pains existed before I started Clomid. I hope this cycle really works for you.

 

[Pinky32]

i didnt know about it either - only started getting it last cycle for first time, i was crying my eyes out thinking it was af meaning my whole cycle was only something like 11 days!

i wouldnt mind, but the egg is sooooooooooo tiny, like a pin head so how can it cause such pain ?????????? im baffled lol

you feeling a little better today - is your pain eased off a bit?

 

[honeycheeks]

i didnt know about it either - only started getting it last cycle for first time, i was crying my eyes out thinking it was af meaning my whole cycle was only something like 11 days!

i wouldnt mind, but the egg is sooooooooooo tiny, like a pin head so how can it cause such pain ?????????? im baffled lol

you feeling a little better today - is your pain eased off a bit?

yes my pain is better today, though not gone completely. My whole body feels sore. BnB is doing its bit in taking my mind off the pain, which makes it better.
You must be super happy that you Ov'ed on your own this cycle. That would be biggest goal I would set for myself in my entire life

 

[Pinky32]

awww im glad its eased off a little, one day of pain is bad enough, not two


oh i hadnt even thought of that!!!!!
woooop wooooop i ov'd on my own yayyyyy
I had the most amount of ewcm that ive had since getting it since 1st jan cycle

cant believe i hadnt thought of that duh!

 

[honeycheeks]

awww im glad its eased off a little, one day of pain is bad enough, not two


oh i hadnt even thought of that!!!!!
woooop wooooop i ov'd on my own yayyyyy
I had the most amount of ewcm that ive had since getting it since 1st jan cycle

cant believe i hadnt thought of that duh!

I cant believe , you dint think of that.
lets do a headspin and celebrate Pinky Ov'ing on her own

 

[Pinky32]

lol im such an idiot - i think ive been concentrating on ov'ing and timing the bd so it didnt occur to me

yayyyy

thank you for pointing that out to me - made my day

 

[honeycheeks]

lol im such an idiot - i think ive been concentrating on ov'ing and timing the bd so it didnt occur to me

yayyyy

thank you for pointing that out to me - made my day

i am happy I brought a smile on your face.