Help on Fertility Friend ???

[Pinky32]

i know it can happen but when you;ve been on the pill for years the chances of it happening are less and less

i even said that to him at the time!

i think, "she" knew things werent right between them (they had been rowing A LOT) and she came off it without telling him - unfortunately, my big mouth also told him that and in another one of their rows he shouted that to her - apparently she didnt say anything!

I agree, can you imagine it, if we all hit that brick wall at the same time!!! it would be a suicide pact! lol

We all have ups and downs and i always get a down the day before im due to see him - theres nothing i can do, its upto him if he pops round

stop checking - shes not there and not going to be!!!

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

I know hunny pie. Dont get down about it. Just keep smiling. were all here for ya love. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

awww thank you - im trying

got a doctors appointment this afternoon to tel him ive got the operation date on my shoulder

 

[honeycheeks]

awww thank you - im trying

got a doctors appointment this afternoon to tel him ive got the operation date on my shoulder

I am really hoping you get your before that. You really really deserve a big big BFP.

 

[Pinky32]

theres others who deserve it more

 

[Pinky32]

oh great!

just text a friend of mine who had a baby in october to see how she is

shes in hospital as shes dehydrated so they put her on a drip - shes 8 weeks preggy and going to abort it

she said shes not ready for another one yet, which i understand but then why not use condoms to help prevent this from happening

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Awww hun you do deserve it. dont put your self down. sorry to hear that your friend's in hospital & i understand what you mean. I dont mean this to sound horrible but i agree with ya dont have unprotected sex if you dont want any more kid's.

Well ladie's... im not doing to good today feeling really emotional, keep crying and feeling like im a disappiontment. i reel really sick like my tummy is spinning around. I dunno if im gonna be able to get them test's today as iv got so many bill's to pay. just gonna wait untill wednesday for doc to do a urine test (poas) if neg then gotta book a blood test. x x x

 

[honeycheeks]

oh great!

just text a friend of mine who had a baby in october to see how she is

shes in hospital as shes dehydrated so they put her on a drip - shes 8 weeks preggy and going to abort it

she said shes not ready for another one yet, which i understand but then why not use condoms to help prevent this from happening

that really is sad!! she shouldnt be trying if she doesnt want another one. It is so upsetting to hear of such incidents.

 

[Pinky32]

Awww hun you do deserve it. dont put your self down. sorry to hear that your friend's in hospital & i understand what you mean. I dont mean this to sound horrible but i agree with ya dont have unprotected sex if you dont want any more kid's.

Well ladie's... im not doing to good today feeling really emotional, keep crying and feeling like im a disappiontment. i reel really sick like my tummy is spinning around. I dunno if im gonna be able to get them test's today as iv got so many bill's to pay. just gonna wait untill wednesday for doc to do a urine test (poas) if neg then gotta book a blood test. x x x

how are you a disappointment? awww hun dont worry about the tests, get them when you can.

by the time you see doc, the level will have increased so at least you will know BUT be aware that it will still be early days so even if it comes back negative, could just be that the levels are too low at that time

oh great!

just text a friend of mine who had a baby in october to see how she is

shes in hospital as shes dehydrated so they put her on a drip - shes 8 weeks preggy and going to abort it

she said shes not ready for another one yet, which i understand but then why not use condoms to help prevent this from happening

that really is sad!! she shouldnt be trying if she doesnt want another one. It is so upsetting to hear of such incidents.

even she said to me a few months ago that she will have to be careful as you are very fertile when you have just had a baby - so use a condom!!!

this is her second abortion in 3-4 years

 

[honeycheeks]

Awww hun you do deserve it. dont put your self down. sorry to hear that your friend's in hospital & i understand what you mean. I dont mean this to sound horrible but i agree with ya dont have unprotected sex if you dont want any more kid's.

Well ladie's... im not doing to good today feeling really emotional, keep crying and feeling like im a disappiontment. i reel really sick like my tummy is spinning around. I dunno if im gonna be able to get them test's today as iv got so many bill's to pay. just gonna wait untill wednesday for doc to do a urine test (poas) if neg then gotta book a blood test. x x x

Dont worry hun, you are never a disappointment. it would be a good idea to wait till wednesday as your levels will go up by then. if you go in too early to the docs for a test, you might be in for more disappointment.
Toes and fingers crossed for you jess. Try to take your mind off the tww for a couple of days (look who is saying that ) and get busy. I hope you feel better soon.

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Thank's girl's. i just feel like a disappointment. i dunno why lol. it's silly. but defo really emotional keep fucking crying lol.

That girl is out of her mind and im sorry to say it hun but she should be in our situation. as she dont want kid's. it should be us popping out load's. aint it weird that when you dont want kid's you seem to get preggy's all the time but when you want kid's you feel like the whole is just flying by and still no baby. x x x

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

ooooooo great Ov day just changed again. look at my chart. x x x

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

No it didnt sorry lol just put temp in wrong. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

take your mind off the tww!!!

thats the funniest thing ive heard in agessssssssssssssss

 

[Pinky32]

ok update

Just got dresses and felt veru "wet", went to check and a glob of ewcm came out! not a huge glob but it stretched about 1 1/2 inches

i also was a bit sneaky - i just text my god-daughters mum, whos boyfriend plays footy with my OH and asked her if footy was on - she said yes about 7.30pm!!

Woooo Hooooo

Fingers crossed it doesnt get cancelled - if he plays only one game then hopefully will be here aorund 8.30-8.45 but if he plays two games then more like 10.00-10.30pm

 

[honeycheeks]

ok update

Just got dresses and felt veru "wet", went to check and a glob of ewcm came out! not a huge glob but it stretched about 1 1/2 inches

i also was a bit sneaky - i just text my god-daughters mum, whos boyfriend plays footy with my OH and asked her if footy was on - she said yes about 7.30pm!!

Woooo Hooooo

Fingers crossed it doesnt get cancelled - if he plays only one game then hopefully will be here aorund 8.30-8.45 but if he plays two games then more like 10.00-10.30pm

thats a great mind at work Pinky... and woooohooooo for EWCM. I hope you get to pounce on OH tonight.

 

[Pinky32]

ok update

Just got dresses and felt veru "wet", went to check and a glob of ewcm came out! not a huge glob but it stretched about 1 1/2 inches

i also was a bit sneaky - i just text my god-daughters mum, whos boyfriend plays footy with my OH and asked her if footy was on - she said yes about 7.30pm!!

Woooo Hooooo

Fingers crossed it doesnt get cancelled - if he plays only one game then hopefully will be here aorund 8.30-8.45 but if he plays two games then more like 10.00-10.30pm

thats a great mind at work Pinky... and woooohooooo for EWCM. I hope you get to pounce on OH tonight.

i suddenly had the thought while drying my hair - if anyone will know if footy is on, she will

IF he comes round, this will be my first time pouncing before i ov - normally, i ov quite quickly and i seem to bd the day of ov itself so this will be a first!

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Awww hun that's great news. As you are offline i'll take it that OH arrived and your BD'ing now.

Get in there girl lol. x x x

My update, really emotional, went to mother in law's today and im telling you i near anothe starting crying about the slightest thing's. And that's not me i dont cry really at all unless it's somethink really bad. still got tender, heavy & swollen boob's. Still got larger and darker Areola's. been feeling a bit on and off. And defo got craving's for bean's on toast with cheese melted on the top. Yummy. had that for 3 day's in a row. increased CM, bachache, headache & disrupted sleep again last night.

Well apart from all them syptom's im in a ok mood today and missed speaking to you girl's all day x x x

Hope your both ok?

Pinky hun let me know if OH arrived?

Honey cheek's let me know with AF arrived or if AF stayed away?

Sending you ladie's load's of sticky baby dust & got my finger's crossed for both of ya. x x x

 

[Pinky32]

hiya sweetpea

lol yes i shut down bnb as he came round - hes got a job interview tomorrow so going to pop round after that too :O

i think, apart from poss being preggy, your stressed and thats why your prob crying more than normal

you need to have a nice long relaxing bath

i know its hard but you have to do it - if you are preggy then you will know soon but at 9dpo its still early

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

I know hun and i will do tomorrow as i have a date in bed with the OH lol.

And so have you tomorrow. Glad it had all worked out great for you hun let's just hope ov arrive's tomorrow hay. Got my finger's crossed tightly for ya babe.

Sending load's of sticky magical baby dust x x x