Help please! I'm new

[Nik_]

This upsets me a bit simply because I knew a girl who did something similar. When she was 15 she became pregnant and had an abortion, shortly after her and the father broke up, they hadn't even been together long when it happened. Their relationship only lasted 2 months. Exactly 2 years later when she started dating another guy, she lied about being on BCP because she wanted to be pregnant again, this all happened within a month of being with the guy. She did get pregnant again and had yet another abortion because the guy didn't want the baby.

However, it seems that no matter the outcome with your OH, that you're going to keep the baby, which is a huge positive and a step in the right direction.

As some of the other girls said, you really need to be completely honest with your OH about what you did, and explain your reasons why. Hopefully he will understand.

Please visit your gp as soon as possible!

Best wishes.

 

[nikky0907]

Oh hun...your abortion must have left you pretty scarred emotionally but you should have talked to someone.You should have gonne to a therapist and worked out your feelings so you can make peace with it and move on.

Unfortunatly whats done is done now.You need to have a long talk with your boyfriend and parents.
Tell them exaxctly what you are going through and what you did.Leave nothing a secret so you can have a good support system no matter what you decide to do and for them to help you get the help you need.

I suggest you have a very long think about what is gonna happen now,what will be best for you and your baby and how you need to sort out your life if ultimatly you decide to be a mother.

Good luck!

 

[ald]

Hi hun, congratulations on your pregnancy.
What ever has happened has happened now, i know this is going to sound easier said then done but you can not get stressed about what may happen as that is not good for you or the baby. Tell the babies dad and then deal with whatever the outcome is, but please make sure you are ok, by eating well and sleeping well etc etc.

Can you talk to your parents for there support as well?

I hope you are ok, and if you ever want to chat please pm me.

Take care xx