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ok so over a week again we took noahs dummy, as he was waking every hour n more, n i was dying from exhaustion, at first it was hard but he took to it rather well after the first day we had our ups and downs n he even started self settling, and woke much less, though still at the least 2 time no more then 3,
however the last 3 days have been a nightmare, hes upset on n off, barely settles at nap time, so is not sleep much in the day as once we have him settled hes awake not long after, bed time he goes down fine, not much of a battle at all but then lately hes been waking at 8, then at 11 n then from 11 hes feeding practically until morning, uses me as a human dummy, n is so unsettled, where normally (once dummy was taken) he wouldnt wake until 11 for feed (after going bed at 7) then again at 2 , then at sometime between 5-7
should i give him his dummy back, doe she just need it which is why he so miserable? or doe sit sound like something else, teething maybe, he is 6 months and dribbly lately? n then i think well he will self settle here n there without it so maybe he just doesnt need it, n chews his teether alot,
what would you say? i just dont know!! n my husband has just left on tour to afghan for 8 months and i cant deal with it anymore on my own with 2 other kiddies too. im all teary myself and dont want to keep withholding the dummy if he needs it or not helping with teething if its that. but i just cant decide what to do as i dont want to just give the dummy back if he doesnt need it
god im all over the place so hoping for help lol
however the last 3 days have been a nightmare, hes upset on n off, barely settles at nap time, so is not sleep much in the day as once we have him settled hes awake not long after, bed time he goes down fine, not much of a battle at all but then lately hes been waking at 8, then at 11 n then from 11 hes feeding practically until morning, uses me as a human dummy, n is so unsettled, where normally (once dummy was taken) he wouldnt wake until 11 for feed (after going bed at 7) then again at 2 , then at sometime between 5-7
should i give him his dummy back, doe she just need it which is why he so miserable? or doe sit sound like something else, teething maybe, he is 6 months and dribbly lately? n then i think well he will self settle here n there without it so maybe he just doesnt need it, n chews his teether alot,
what would you say? i just dont know!! n my husband has just left on tour to afghan for 8 months and i cant deal with it anymore on my own with 2 other kiddies too. im all teary myself and dont want to keep withholding the dummy if he needs it or not helping with teething if its that. but i just cant decide what to do as i dont want to just give the dummy back if he doesnt need it
god im all over the place so hoping for help lol