dustbunny
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Hey... new to this website today but on other boards people have been so lovely. Just thought I'd explain my situation and see if people have any advice etc.
I was with my partner for 8 months and was beginning to have doubts and then found out I was pregnant the weekend I decided to break up with him. So I left it another week [not very nice I know but I wanted time to think] and broke up with him. He is a nice guy but extremely immature and has taken no responsibility for his initial negative reactions and how that affected me and how I felt about being pregnant. Also he doesn't have a job and lives in student accommodation with 2 other guys, whereas after graduation I moved back home. I get on so well with his mum and talking to her I can explain things and properly talk without a temper tantrum or a hissy fit which is the normal reaction of my ex.
Also there was a lot of negative reactions from people towards me and the baby [because my ex partner is ginger... the normal nasty jokes] and he didnt want to stick up for me or the baby till I basically bent over backwards. It later turned out my sister has helped him word what he said to the people. Also it turned out his mother helps him word what he says to me. He has also lied to me about job interviews and going/not going to them and that being my fault.
I didn't let him go to the first scan because of everything negative which had happened I wanted to get excited about what was happening to me, which turned into another argument and twisting of what had been said previously.
Stupidly I do still miss him but I don't know why... I consider myself quite a strong person and I hate piggybacking people or persuading people to step up to the mark.
Sorry... just think I needed a major rant. Sorry for the long post.
I was with my partner for 8 months and was beginning to have doubts and then found out I was pregnant the weekend I decided to break up with him. So I left it another week [not very nice I know but I wanted time to think] and broke up with him. He is a nice guy but extremely immature and has taken no responsibility for his initial negative reactions and how that affected me and how I felt about being pregnant. Also he doesn't have a job and lives in student accommodation with 2 other guys, whereas after graduation I moved back home. I get on so well with his mum and talking to her I can explain things and properly talk without a temper tantrum or a hissy fit which is the normal reaction of my ex.
Also there was a lot of negative reactions from people towards me and the baby [because my ex partner is ginger... the normal nasty jokes] and he didnt want to stick up for me or the baby till I basically bent over backwards. It later turned out my sister has helped him word what he said to the people. Also it turned out his mother helps him word what he says to me. He has also lied to me about job interviews and going/not going to them and that being my fault.
I didn't let him go to the first scan because of everything negative which had happened I wanted to get excited about what was happening to me, which turned into another argument and twisting of what had been said previously.
Stupidly I do still miss him but I don't know why... I consider myself quite a strong person and I hate piggybacking people or persuading people to step up to the mark.
Sorry... just think I needed a major rant. Sorry for the long post.
xxx
