Hi Girls ...
It's been a while since I've logged in ....today I need y'all .....
Today is exactly 6 months since my Emma was taken from me... I am loss for words to be honest... Not exactly sure why I started a new thread ... Guess I just felt very lonely and here I knew I'd be surrounded by others in my shoes ... (Unfortunately) ...
As I walked down the hallway and peek into the empty ugly bedroom that was suppose to be my Emma's I can't help not to be sick to my stomach... I can invision how it was going to look.. It is such a beautiful room, has big beautiful windows, I even planted plants and flowers around them so she could look out and see such beauty or as I sat in the rocker and rocked and just sang or talked to her we could enjoy them... I hate this! 99% of the time, I keep that bedroom door shut!
Another thing that is REALLY bothering me ... and wondered if any of you experienced this and if so how can we change this... Me and Emma's dad do NOT ever, EVER talk about her, it's like I'm not allowed cuz I might get upset.. Well, so what if I cry or get upset... I hate that we never talk about her, about the situation, about anything anymore... Right after she passed we was inseperable.. He was my rock, showed each other so much love and always there for each other... Now its a totally different relationship... He asked what was wrong with me today as I cooked us breakfast , I told him "nothing" "that I was FINE" .. He has NO idea what today is, we have never been to the cemetary together since her burial, I go almost daily ... alone... Just wish she wasn't the "big elephant" in the room, a taboo topic, for christs sake, it's our daughter! Just very sad and lonely today and feels like I don't know how to change us.... I don't like that and think we need help but no way will he go talk to a counselor or something with me...
Have you all experienced this, if so HELP?? Are you any better?? If so, how??? I love this man with everything in me but I hate this feeling... I can tell him til I'm blue in the face but nothing ever changes ... This isn't a new topic for us... So I'm a lil discouraged ...
I so love and miss my Em' ... God, I wish she was here with me ...
Sorry bout the rambleing .....
It's been a while since I've logged in ....today I need y'all .....
Today is exactly 6 months since my Emma was taken from me... I am loss for words to be honest... Not exactly sure why I started a new thread ... Guess I just felt very lonely and here I knew I'd be surrounded by others in my shoes ... (Unfortunately) ...
As I walked down the hallway and peek into the empty ugly bedroom that was suppose to be my Emma's I can't help not to be sick to my stomach... I can invision how it was going to look.. It is such a beautiful room, has big beautiful windows, I even planted plants and flowers around them so she could look out and see such beauty or as I sat in the rocker and rocked and just sang or talked to her we could enjoy them... I hate this! 99% of the time, I keep that bedroom door shut!
Another thing that is REALLY bothering me ... and wondered if any of you experienced this and if so how can we change this... Me and Emma's dad do NOT ever, EVER talk about her, it's like I'm not allowed cuz I might get upset.. Well, so what if I cry or get upset... I hate that we never talk about her, about the situation, about anything anymore... Right after she passed we was inseperable.. He was my rock, showed each other so much love and always there for each other... Now its a totally different relationship... He asked what was wrong with me today as I cooked us breakfast , I told him "nothing" "that I was FINE" .. He has NO idea what today is, we have never been to the cemetary together since her burial, I go almost daily ... alone... Just wish she wasn't the "big elephant" in the room, a taboo topic, for christs sake, it's our daughter! Just very sad and lonely today and feels like I don't know how to change us.... I don't like that and think we need help but no way will he go talk to a counselor or something with me...
Have you all experienced this, if so HELP?? Are you any better?? If so, how??? I love this man with everything in me but I hate this feeling... I can tell him til I'm blue in the face but nothing ever changes ... This isn't a new topic for us... So I'm a lil discouraged ...
I so love and miss my Em' ... God, I wish she was here with me ...
Sorry bout the rambleing .....