hit me like a ton of bricks

[chefamy1122]

I just got a phone call from an old friend that I had lost touch with over the years. She is pregnant from her "friend" of 5 months...

Little bit of background. My friend has had one hell of a life. She became addicted to crack about 6 years ago and was basically living on the streets... stole from friends and family... was prostituting herself out... basically hit rock bottom..... was in and out of jail, etc.
She was put into a heavy duty rehab program for about a year and has been clean for 13 months... out of rehab for a few months now, and is basically starting her life over.

She had no idea how upset this would make me, b/c I had never told her all the troubles that Greg and I have been having trying to conceive... she called me at work to tell me her "good" news.

WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY does this happen??????

 

[miel]

oh no no............i am so sorry...those "good news " are so hard on us i am so sorry...


PS:still not considering on coming in CA to change your mind a little? we having a PJ's party...

 

[Farie]

Oh honey the biggest biggest for you
Life is such a s**t sometimes

 

[chefamy1122]

oh no no............i am so sorry...those "good news " are so hard on us i am so sorry...


PS:still not considering on coming in CA to change your mind a little? we having a PJ's party...

I reallllllllly want to come, but I am trying to do the responsible thing and not spend the money that close to Christmas....

 

[JASMAK]

It is so hard to be happy for friends when we are all suffering so. Sounds like she has been on shakey ground. I really hope, for at least her baby's sake, that she truly cleans her act up. It is so frustrating that we are all so-deserving, when there is those out there with very questionable pasts having children. Too bad there wasn't a test or something to see if people "qualified". Nothing fancy...but, heavy drug use etc...perhaps they should provide "proof" that they are clean, and be clean for so long....I am rambling.

 

[polo_princess]

 

[chefamy1122]

It is so hard to be happy for friends when we are all suffering so. Sounds like she has been on shakey ground. I really hope, for at least her baby's sake, that she truly cleans her act up. It is so frustrating that we are all so-deserving, when there is those out there with very questionable pasts having children. Too bad there wasn't a test or something to see if people "qualified". Nothing fancy...but, heavy drug use etc...perhaps they should provide "proof" that they are clean, and be clean for so long....I am rambling.

That is why I am so upset. I LOVE Jenn, I really do, and right now, she should be concentrating on staying clean and her continued recovery... not planning her baby's arrival. Maybe a few years down the road it would be different, but not now!


I have been doing good avoiding alcohol lately, getting my body ready for the next round of injections and IUI, but I am having a big ole drink right now. Hope you ladies don't mind!!!


Oh yeah, and if any of you ladies saw my thread last week in general chatter, my coworker did pass away this weekend after her stroke and heart attack she had last week. So this Friday, I will be going to the funeral of someone I have sat about 15 feet away from for the last 8 years. It has been so depressing at work the last 2 days. Everyone there is just heartbroken.

Fucking fuck!!

 

[JASMAK]

Sorry to hear that. If anyone deserves a drink right now...it is def you. You def have my blessing.

 

[miel]

i am so sorry about your coworker friend ...

 

[Vestirse]

What a week you've had. I'm sorry that life is such a bitch sometimes.

 

[HAYS]

aw chick im sorry, it does seem sooo unfair doesnt it
xxxxxhugs xxxx

 

[Nicnac]

so sorry to hear you've had a rubbish week.

Big big

 

[CareBear]

I just got a phone call from an old friend that I had lost touch with over the years. She is pregnant from her "friend" of 5 months...

Little bit of background. My friend has had one hell of a life. She became addicted to crack about 6 years ago and was basically living on the streets... stole from friends and family... was prostituting herself out... basically hit rock bottom..... was in and out of jail, etc.
She was put into a heavy duty rehab program for about a year and has been clean for 13 months... out of rehab for a few months now, and is basically starting her life over.

She had no idea how upset this would make me, b/c I had never told her all the troubles that Greg and I have been having trying to conceive... she called me at work to tell me her "good" news.

WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY does this happen??????

I am soo sorry I would love to know why as well. Sorry you have had such a rubbish week, life sucks sometimes