Alright, I'm going to put another two cents in: Some might consider me selfish for having an unassisted birth. Whatever, its your own perogative, but it was the right decision for me, my DH, and that birth. We researched the hell out of the what if's so I don't want to hear that we lacked education because of our decision. Most people who go unassisted go into it with a lot more knowledge than those who go into the hospital and depend upon the doctors or MW's there to do every little thing for them. We take on that responsibility. We know what we are taking onto our hands. There is fear and trepidation with any and every birth, there are always the what if's, no matter where or how you birth.
Now, we made the decision for UC for multiple reasons: there is a lack of MW's in our area, and the one's that we do have I have found to be inadequate, and very expensive for their inadequacies, at that. The MW I had at my last birth was more worried about loosing her license than the health and safety of my baby and myself. The hospital treated me horrendously, and I would never step foot in that hospital again unless it was a true emergency. It was safer in my eyes to give birth at home than to put myself and my baby in the hands of the professionals. UC isn't for everyone, but neither is home birthing, giving birth in a birth center, or hospital birthing. That is why we have choices. We live with the choices that we make and the consequences thereof. Its called life, its what we do. End of.
So, was I selfish in the choices I made? hmmm, maybe, as I was putting
my health and the health of
my baby first, even past the what if's.
I took my time and researched birth to no end. In the end,
I had a perfect birth. Call me lucky, or what will you, but I know that if something did happen, I would have had the knowledge to do what was right, and I would have gone to the hospital if the need arose, and my DH was knowledgable enough to know the signs for an emergency and what to do if the situation turned into an emergency. Oh, and btw, I am a student MW as well, though I wasn't at the time of the birth.
Sorry if my post sounds a little defensive, but I want you to know that I didn't go into UC blindly. I wasn't selfish for doing it and I am open to any questions that do arise.