Yes I keep thinking I'd like Ina May as my MW please, or whoever else is fighting the cause in the States! lol
Plus I now find my confidence being shaken in my own MW thinking well does she know what to do if I am a surprise breech delivery or if the baby has shoulder dystocia?
Just had a mammoth talk with DH. He is reading the Wesson homebirth book and is impassioned and furious! It's great.
He was also talking about being the only person who knows how to take care of me. Like he'll know when I need a bowl of cereal or to stand by an open window whilst others are suggesting lots of useless things. And it's true, he knows me so well and throughout pregnancy too. He's going to be a fantastic birth partner. I'm very lucky. He said he doesn't have regrets about how things turned out last time because he simply didn't know all this stuff but now he does he's completely confident in it all and confident in his own abilities to question and say no and protect me.