Morning ladies! Just had a look at that pain relief thread... I think it's the opinion that we all
require pharmacological pain relief that is contrary to opinion in this section of the forum. I actually agree with the sentiment (only read the first page by the way) of the posts, that there should be more options available to all women, and more information about the full range of alternatives, obviously including non-pharmacological options. Of course we should all be educating ourselves about these options and not rely on the hospital or midwives to inform us, but that's another debate altogether...
I've not gone work today because I feel I've not slept a wink for two nights. I've not felt any kick or punch type movements for quite a few days now, it's all shuffling and wriggling and turning, almost constant. Don't know if this is what's keeping me up at night or something else. So tired
So do I take a days annual leave, or book sick leave for the day?
Went to a home birth support group the other night which was nice, just nice to talk to other women planning the same thing round here, and who've already done it. Not sure I'd go to another one but was good reference for when OH's family came round to ours last night, and his dad was shocked and surprised we were planning to have the baby at home! Think we definitely managed to explain ourselves well and explain away any worries he had... funniest moment was when he said to OH's mum, "Where would you have rather been when you were in labour, home or hospital?" and she said without missing a beat, "Home, definitely!"
Don't think that was the reply he wanted at all, but think we proved it was the best choice for us, and that the only opinions that mattered belonged to me and OH!