Honestly, whats the point!??!?!?!?!?!?!!?

[Rach276]

I hate people. I really do. Im SICK to death of the sodding funny looks!!!
Yes im 19, yes im pregnant. Whats the point in looking at me like a peice of crap?!?!
Im not in a bad position financially and this little lad will want for nothing. Why do people think because im a younger mum that I dont deserve to be pregnant. The looks are well and truely getting me down now. I got on the bus and two lads were at the back smoking weed and I heard them muttering slag.

What have I done so wrong?!? Whats it going to be like after his born!?!?!
I really cant deal with the way people are making me feel.

Post proberly doesnt even make sence, sorry.

 

[tootsy1987]

Big huggs hunny! ignore the idiots!!!!! you know that your going to be the best mummy, fuck all the others ) give them funny looks back... Huggs babe!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[charlotteb24]

Ignore them hun, they clearly have nothing going on in their lives and feel the need to comment on everyone elses. I got pregnant with this little one at 20 and i still get the "bit young to be having a baby aren't you?" looks etc.

Well no actually i'm not too young and nor are you and providing you can give your little man the love and care he needs which clearly isn't even an issue then who has the right to comment?! nobody!

I think its sad that they clearly don't have anything going on in their sad pathetic little lives worth talking about so they have to talk about other people instead!

Ignore them and enjoy the experience won't be long before he is here now!
best of luck xxxxx

 

[oOKayOo]

Im 22 this year and i still get the looks . I dont think it ever goes away , infact today i got tutted at for no reason at all!

I think if you look young whatever age anyone is everyone will still do it. There are just too many narrowminded people and have nothing better to do then hate on others! When there the ones that should be looking at themselves

Chin up and walk with pride hun!

 

[Kimboowee]

I would of gone up and knocked them out! I seriously have no patience! I went mental at a woman in the post office giving me funny looks.

Why should i show her respect just cos she's older than me when she clearly has no respect for anyone!!!
My god if she werent an oap i would of swung for her!
Im not a violent person normally but seriously some people need to keep their damn opinions to themselves!

 

[Rach276]

Im actually crying now. How stupid. Bloody hormones.
Thank you
I just dont see what they achieve?

 

[overcomer79]

I wouldn't worry. I am albino and get those "what the f*** are you" looks all the time. I know it gets old. I just started taking something to do on the bus like crocheting so I tell my mind if they are staring at me then they are watching me crochet. I doesn't matter the age honestly, if you are different in ANY way some people just have to make it known. You just be the best mommy you can be!! Just think, there are some that are 10 years older than you that are nothing but crap for parents!! After your little boy is born, let those fools see love in your eyes for your boy. That is all that matters is that you love that little boy.

 

[Twiglet]

I'm 22 this year and to be honest I still get the looks. I just announce that I'm 22 and my baby will be looked after so if they've got a problem could they please say it to me rather than give me looks. Makes my Mom and OH either laugh or cringe.

The way I see it is once my baby is here these people will want to coo and ahh over it and I'll make sure they dont It just annoys me that people feel they can have opinions on others lives without actually knowing the person.

 

[Kimboowee]

Im actually crying now. How stupid. Bloody hormones.
Thank you
I just dont see what they achieve?

Awww try not to worry about narrow minded twats!
They have nothing going on in their sad little lives so feel like they have to comment on everybody elses!

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

I hate people that do this. With a passion! I'm not pregnant, but if i see anyone glaring at a young person for being pregnant i just glare at them myself, see how they like it!! xx

 

[alice&bump]

i got pregnant at 19 and thnk god, i've never had the look, but i often feel like people are kinda lookin down on me when i give my DOB and katie's. try your hardest to ignore thhem hun (i know, easier said than done).

i allways think of it this way, those old people that look down their noses, they're hypocrits. back when they were our age, they all had babies and it was the norm! xxxx

 

[x_manxie_x]

I got my first set of dirty looks in the doctors the other day, they literally wouldn't take their eyes off me and other people in the waiting room could see they were staring. Then the mum said to her daughter, who looked about 17 "I'm glad you're not like that". Honestly, if the midwife hadn't called me in at that point I would have went mad at them! It really isn't nice is it

 

[Rach276]

Bloody people and there opinions!

 

[sleepinbeauty]

Oh fuck them. They think so so goddamn fantastic but I'm sure that they haven't accomplished half as much as you have and...just...ahh! now I'm pissed too. I really hate when people do this. One time, right after my friend's 1st DD was born, we were driving down a highway and some asshole next to us rolls down his window and YELLS AT US. WHILE DRIVING! Is he fucking ********?! That was 1.5 years ago and i'm still pissed.

*hugs* seriously, fuck them. You are about to know a love so strong and you are about to experience a kind of joy those motherf*ckers have probably never even gotten close to.

 

[Abblebubba]

I understand you entirely im in a wheelchair and so i get the looks because of that and now im pregnant Jeez it is even worse, when baby Tyler comes along i will probably get more but i will love that baby and it will want for nothing, so they can look all they like i just think to my self they are admiring how amazing i am for doing it all on my own even if i am disabled and it is social unacceptable in the older generations for me to have a bubba *rolls eyes*
Chin up, ignore them.

 

[Rach276]

Im abit more cheerd up now thanks girls! We should all unite and form some sort of hate group lol.
I have to hobble to the cashpoint and shop in a bit and I think if any one stares I may kick off! Be rebelious!

 

[nikky0907]

Ugh, I hate stupid mindless people who think they know all so much!

I didn't get judgment when I was pregnant but I do now get 'Is she yours?How old are you?' questions from complete strangers. Mind your own business!

 

[JayleighAnn]

I get stared at, and old ladies muttering under their breath.

It's hard to hear sometimes, but I just tell myself "it's their problem, not mine"

 

[Katiex]

im 24 and had the look off a few people and i look my age. i think some ppl are just narrow minded

 

[AppleBlossom]

People are just b*stards. I would get occasional stares. It didn't bother me because I knew my baby would want for nothing. I am 19 but I look a lot younger too