I've had a really rubbish day so i feel like ranting for a bit!! So it started last night, my mum phoned and asked me and OH to go round there today for a chat. I was really pleased because i thought that maybe she'd finally come round to the idea of me having a baby and maybe even wanted to apologise....no such luck. She said she thought i was stupid for having this baby because im too young and that she knows ill be a terrible mother and im not fit to have a child. Grr. Said she doesnt approve of my situation (???) to which i said that this baby would ahve a much better up-bringing than i did because i will show the baby al the love in the world unlike her!!! Then she announced that she had rights as the babys nan and that she wanted to have him/her stay with her every other weekend!! Whats all that about!! So i went on to have a huge hissy fit about how she doesnt care about me or the baby and is just being spiteful and that she wont ever get to see my baby until she accepts me and my OH being together and bringing up this baby and proves to me that shes not a stupid bloody bitch!!! Then we got home and had a huge row with OH because he tried to stick up for her saying that at least she was showing an interest!! I tried to explain that she was only trying to hurt us and why the hell should she have out baby for 3 days at a time?? I know i wouldnt want to be apart from my child like that, especially right after birth! He basically told me i was being irrational and stormed off to the pub with his mates!! Am i over reacting??? Plus i have a really rotten cold that i actually think might be a chest infection!! I don't know if its worth going to dr or mw about it as i dont know if it effects the baby??