helsbelsx4
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I can honestly say that thrombosed piles are the worst pain I've ever had agreed!! Heres to keeping fingers and toes crossed lol xxxx
Hi hope u don't mind me joining. I had my baby boy on Monday evening and I have a strong history of severe piles. I had external thrombosed huge piles during my pregnancy and after the birth of my previous baby. Currently I don't have any piles BUT my history is that they will start approx a wk after the birth. I suppose I am here introducing myself as I feel I will be needing ur support shortly and tbh I am scared. I hope u ladies are beginning to feel better xx
Well I had my six week check yesterday and spoke to the GP. He advised that something can definitely be done but that they have a new GP at the surgery who was a colo-rectal surgeon and has started doing banding and the injection in the surgery so I have an appointment with him next Friday for him to see how bad they are and decide if he can do it in the surgery or refer me for a full heamarroidectomy which would need to wait until I finish breastfeeding.
NMA, yours sound just as bad as mine so if they are still painful I would definatly go back and ask for something to be done. From experience (I have had them for years) they don't go away when they reach s certain stage.x
I have had internal piles for over 6 weeks now and the anusol cream just makes them sting.
Well I had my six week check yesterday and spoke to the GP. He advised that something can definitely be done but that they have a new GP at the surgery who was a colo-rectal surgeon and has started doing banding and the injection in the surgery so I have an appointment with him next Friday for him to see how bad they are and decide if he can do it in the surgery or refer me for a full heamarroidectomy which would need to wait until I finish breastfeeding.
NMA, yours sound just as bad as mine so if they are still painful I would definatly go back and ask for something to be done. From experience (I have had them for years) they don't go away when they reach s certain stage.x
hugs xx
If any consalotion im in agony and now need surgery for a fissure I have in my rectum.
thanks, i shouldnt complain cos its nothing compared to what you are going through. its just been one thing after another, i had hyperemesis, then terrible wait during whole pregnancy as had high nuchal fold and decided to wait it out and now these piles - just upset as if had proper aftercare wouldnt be in this state. its my last baby as i cant go through preg again and just feel missing out on my baby as piles ruining my life. hoping pain subsides in few days. not much can do about the swelling.
am trying not to get down as my mother had severe PND and I have always worried about this. although in laws are fine I have no family here or help and with two high needs children cant stay in bed or sitz bath my days away. given up on doc creams weeks back as useless and sticking religiously to my high fiber diet and waiting it out till my doc appt. i know though they will say continue to wait.
hugs xx
If any consalotion im in agony and now need surgery for a fissure I have in my rectum.
thanks, i shouldnt complain cos its nothing compared to what you are going through. its just been one thing after another, i had hyperemesis, then terrible wait during whole pregnancy as had high nuchal fold and decided to wait it out and now these piles - just upset as if had proper aftercare wouldnt be in this state. its my last baby as i cant go through preg again and just feel missing out on my baby as piles ruining my life. hoping pain subsides in few days. not much can do about the swelling.
am trying not to get down as my mother had severe PND and I have always worried about this. although in laws are fine I have no family here or help and with two high needs children cant stay in bed or sitz bath my days away. given up on doc creams weeks back as useless and sticking religiously to my high fiber diet and waiting it out till my doc appt. i know though they will say continue to wait.
hugs xx
If any consalotion im in agony and now need surgery for a fissure I have in my rectum.
Poor you
Piles are evil things - why dont you try what I did and put thrush cream on them? I have NO itching and only mininmal pain since doing it. I know the feeling of how you feel like your not enjoying your baby - I too am in the state because of stupid midwifes making the wrong decisions - they didnt seem to care they have ruined my sex life, ruined me mentally and not to mention mutalated my bum/ vagina because of their neglagence! If I ever become a midwife I will make damn sure I am a bloody good one WHICH LISTENS TO THE MOTHER.... hmm. Try the thrush cream on them. x
I am in bit of a state today, had good old cry over state of my bum and feel bit better. Trying to get fighting spirit back as they were improving albeit every so slowly. Husband said can go private to get them seen to but it would cost a few thousand - am scared of going with nhs after both my birthing experiences but its a lot of money so going to given till christmas and go for the op if no improvement - i would only consider the HALO which i would only be able to get privately so hoping wont need to do this. Will discuss with my GP whether banding would be appropriate for me but to be honest they are very swollen and despite my postings there does not seem to be many women who have had them as severe as mine - i.e prolapsed and huge and recovered. If there are please come out and advise as am desperate!
mine surprisingly not itchy, just sore and painful. thankfully not constipated since that one episode on weekend so hopefully few months may recover.
It is hard as bad birth experiences do ruin your life, am lucky my husband is wonderful but i feel embarrassed, angry and depressed over this.
thanks, i shouldnt complain cos its nothing compared to what you are going through. its just been one thing after another, i had hyperemesis, then terrible wait during whole pregnancy as had high nuchal fold and decided to wait it out and now these piles - just upset as if had proper aftercare wouldnt be in this state. its my last baby as i cant go through preg again and just feel missing out on my baby as piles ruining my life. hoping pain subsides in few days. not much can do about the swelling.
am trying not to get down as my mother had severe PND and I have always worried about this. although in laws are fine I have no family here or help and with two high needs children cant stay in bed or sitz bath my days away. given up on doc creams weeks back as useless and sticking religiously to my high fiber diet and waiting it out till my doc appt. i know though they will say continue to wait.
hugs xx
If any consalotion im in agony and now need surgery for a fissure I have in my rectum.
Poor you
Piles are evil things - why dont you try what I did and put thrush cream on them? I have NO itching and only mininmal pain since doing it. I know the feeling of how you feel like your not enjoying your baby - I too am in the state because of stupid midwifes making the wrong decisions - they didnt seem to care they have ruined my sex life, ruined me mentally and not to mention mutalated my bum/ vagina because of their neglagence! If I ever become a midwife I will make damn sure I am a bloody good one WHICH LISTENS TO THE MOTHER.... hmm. Try the thrush cream on them. x
I am in bit of a state today, had good old cry over state of my bum and feel bit better. Trying to get fighting spirit back as they were improving albeit every so slowly. Husband said can go private to get them seen to but it would cost a few thousand - am scared of going with nhs after both my birthing experiences but its a lot of money so going to given till christmas and go for the op if no improvement - i would only consider the HALO which i would only be able to get privately so hoping wont need to do this. Will discuss with my GP whether banding would be appropriate for me but to be honest they are very swollen and despite my postings there does not seem to be many women who have had them as severe as mine - i.e prolapsed and huge and recovered. If there are please come out and advise as am desperate!
mine surprisingly not itchy, just sore and painful. thankfully not constipated since that one episode on weekend so hopefully few months may recover.
It is hard as bad birth experiences do ruin your life, am lucky my husband is wonderful but i feel embarrassed, angry and depressed over this.
thanks, i shouldnt complain cos its nothing compared to what you are going through. its just been one thing after another, i had hyperemesis, then terrible wait during whole pregnancy as had high nuchal fold and decided to wait it out and now these piles - just upset as if had proper aftercare wouldnt be in this state. its my last baby as i cant go through preg again and just feel missing out on my baby as piles ruining my life. hoping pain subsides in few days. not much can do about the swelling.
am trying not to get down as my mother had severe PND and I have always worried about this. although in laws are fine I have no family here or help and with two high needs children cant stay in bed or sitz bath my days away. given up on doc creams weeks back as useless and sticking religiously to my high fiber diet and waiting it out till my doc appt. i know though they will say continue to wait.
hugs xx
If any consalotion im in agony and now need surgery for a fissure I have in my rectum.
Poor you
Piles are evil things - why dont you try what I did and put thrush cream on them? I have NO itching and only mininmal pain since doing it. I know the feeling of how you feel like your not enjoying your baby - I too am in the state because of stupid midwifes making the wrong decisions - they didnt seem to care they have ruined my sex life, ruined me mentally and not to mention mutalated my bum/ vagina because of their neglagence! If I ever become a midwife I will make damn sure I am a bloody good one WHICH LISTENS TO THE MOTHER.... hmm. Try the thrush cream on them. x
I am too depressed and embrassed. I wont be having sex for at least 12 months I reckon once I have had the surgery on my bum to get "put right". My sex life might still be ruined though cos I am gaping open (my bits) down there and people keep telling me their girly bits closed up 6 weeks after birth - but mine are still gaping open AND I can see my uretha. Can I asked what happend at both your births? Are you still having sex with the piles? x
Huge huge to both of you, I have my next appointment tomorrow so will update after to let you know what they have said. Fingers crossed both of you get a bit more pain free.xx
Just looked up prolasped piles on google images - you poor thing! They look awful - I bet it really hurts to sit and poo? Which is what it's like for me apart from I have internal piles you cant see and a huge teat/ hole which needs repairing.......so actually yours may be as bad as mine