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I'm a bit nervous.
Originally me and DH had agreed to NTNP in June, that was when my pill ran out and we'd decided late last year to just stop taking it and see what happens.
My mum passed away in march so we then decided to put it off. After losing her I voiced concernes about having more children with her not being around and not knowing if I'd be able to cope, DH also expressed concerns about having more and any future children not meeting their grandmothers (we lost DH's mum 3 years ago). I've mentioned it in passing a few times but we've never really gone into any detail with the conversation.
I've been having counselling to help with how I'm feeling about losing mum and I'm starting to feel now that ill be ok, and I'm at a point where I want to say "I know I said I didn't want to, but now I do". The problem is I don't know how approach the conversation.
How do you ladies bring the subject up without sounding like a broken record?
Originally me and DH had agreed to NTNP in June, that was when my pill ran out and we'd decided late last year to just stop taking it and see what happens.
My mum passed away in march so we then decided to put it off. After losing her I voiced concernes about having more children with her not being around and not knowing if I'd be able to cope, DH also expressed concerns about having more and any future children not meeting their grandmothers (we lost DH's mum 3 years ago). I've mentioned it in passing a few times but we've never really gone into any detail with the conversation.
I've been having counselling to help with how I'm feeling about losing mum and I'm starting to feel now that ill be ok, and I'm at a point where I want to say "I know I said I didn't want to, but now I do". The problem is I don't know how approach the conversation.
How do you ladies bring the subject up without sounding like a broken record?