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Some of you osted on my other thread when I said I was going to tell my mum about the baby. I still haven't but tonight is the night.
My OH told his mum today and apparently she loves me and I am part of the family, is proud I am keeping it, will do everything she can to ensure we can both contiune with our education and support us in every other way. I found this so nice considering I have only met her once and some people may have seen it as me ruining their childs life.
So tonight I'm going to his for dinner so all three of us can talk about it and stuff.
Before I go I'm going to leave a letter on my mums bed, expalining it all to her. How when I found out I was too scared and was going to get an abortion so didn't tell her, then I made the appointment but couldnt go through with it. How I can't get rid of my baby and such. Explain to her that right now I know she is disappointed in me but I need her so much atm. Tell her I put if off for so long because she kept telling me my 17 year old friend who is pregnant is stupid. Just basically apologise and tell her I love her and need her, so does the baby. Then tell her how I promise I am sitll going to go to university and do well with my life and stuff.
Then talk to her when I get home and shes calmed down a bit.
Does this seem ok? Or cowardly?
My OH told his mum today and apparently she loves me and I am part of the family, is proud I am keeping it, will do everything she can to ensure we can both contiune with our education and support us in every other way. I found this so nice considering I have only met her once and some people may have seen it as me ruining their childs life.
So tonight I'm going to his for dinner so all three of us can talk about it and stuff.
Before I go I'm going to leave a letter on my mums bed, expalining it all to her. How when I found out I was too scared and was going to get an abortion so didn't tell her, then I made the appointment but couldnt go through with it. How I can't get rid of my baby and such. Explain to her that right now I know she is disappointed in me but I need her so much atm. Tell her I put if off for so long because she kept telling me my 17 year old friend who is pregnant is stupid. Just basically apologise and tell her I love her and need her, so does the baby. Then tell her how I promise I am sitll going to go to university and do well with my life and stuff.
Then talk to her when I get home and shes calmed down a bit.
Does this seem ok? Or cowardly?