Mrs Doddy
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Since wanting a baby badly my emotions are running really high. I am very tearful alot of the time, everything makes me cry, I find it really hard to look at babies and avoid baby shops like anything. I cry at the tv - especially anything to do with children.
I have 4 friends that are pregnant at the moment which is so hard especially one of them is one of the group I went to college with the other 2 have children now and I feel so sad
With it now under two months I am excited but scared that when it comes to it H is not going to be ready- I haven't been talking about it to him and he hasn't said that he has changed his mind but some of the things that he has said in the past really worries me that he doesn't want the responsibility or that I am going to be left doing everything myself - we do not have any family nearby to support us and friends have their own children to look after -you can't get hold of them half the time.
I can't talk to him about it at the moment because he will think that I am nagging him and would cry my eyes out. I will have to before Feb just to be sure before I come off the pill.
He has been a little mean a few times. We were at our friends a while ago and their toddler was asking me to take her to the potty which I did, the husband said youve got all this to look forward to and H said that oh we aren't having any. I was crushed and spend days thinking that he didn't want kids, I eventually asked him and he said he was joking wtf ??? And when we were on holiday a few weeks ago I said about it might not happen straight away because of body adjusting to not being on the pill and he said come off it now then - then he said he was joking. H is the most loving and caring person I have ever met and being nasty is not like him, we rarly argue and I don't understand why he is being like this.
I feel like an emotional wreck, Is anyone else like this ????
I have 4 friends that are pregnant at the moment which is so hard especially one of them is one of the group I went to college with the other 2 have children now and I feel so sad
With it now under two months I am excited but scared that when it comes to it H is not going to be ready- I haven't been talking about it to him and he hasn't said that he has changed his mind but some of the things that he has said in the past really worries me that he doesn't want the responsibility or that I am going to be left doing everything myself - we do not have any family nearby to support us and friends have their own children to look after -you can't get hold of them half the time.
I can't talk to him about it at the moment because he will think that I am nagging him and would cry my eyes out. I will have to before Feb just to be sure before I come off the pill.
He has been a little mean a few times. We were at our friends a while ago and their toddler was asking me to take her to the potty which I did, the husband said youve got all this to look forward to and H said that oh we aren't having any. I was crushed and spend days thinking that he didn't want kids, I eventually asked him and he said he was joking wtf ??? And when we were on holiday a few weeks ago I said about it might not happen straight away because of body adjusting to not being on the pill and he said come off it now then - then he said he was joking. H is the most loving and caring person I have ever met and being nasty is not like him, we rarly argue and I don't understand why he is being like this.
I feel like an emotional wreck, Is anyone else like this ????