How involved with your ohs family are you?

Discussion in 'Teen Pregnancy' started by Laura--x, Oct 26, 2008.

  1. Laura--x

    Laura--x Guest

    Do you see them alot? Only when you need to? Very rarely? Do you get on with them?

    I used to really get on with my ohs family, and used to spend most my time down there, but since my ohs older broter and his girlfriend had a baby ( they are 18) it seems as if i've been pushed aside.

    I am hardly down ohs house anymore due to him being at college and me just feeling crap, and i get comments like ' omg your actually here!' from his little sister,his mum just isn't the same with me anymore n it really annoys me.

    Oh wants me to be down there all the time like before, but i just don't feel comfortable down there anymore!

    What about you girls?
     
  2. LongRoadAhead

    LongRoadAhead ♥Due 06/05/09♥

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    Hun, I think its your hormones that are probably making you feel uncomfortable around them. Sometime during pregnancy you just dont want to be around certain people.
    Theres nothing wrong with not seeing OHs family as much, They should understand that you are going to be having a family of your own soon and then will be far to busy with LO to be there all the time. Perhaps making a phone call to his mum every now and then just for a genral natter will keep things ok :)
    Xxxxxxxxx
     
  3. beau_belle

    beau_belle wtt after miscarridge

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    me and my OH only see his mum, stepdad and 2 younger brothers every couple of months because they live abroad. They moved out there when he was 16 and he moved in with his grandparents.

    But we both live with my mum and brother and see my dad regularly and he gets on well with them :)

    I think you are just feeling a bit under the weather so you feel a bit on your own and uncomfortable in some situations.
     
  4. Alexis

    Alexis Surprisingly in the 2WW

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    I am currently with my OH family. LOL my OH just graduated from the army so we came down to georgia to see him and spend time with him.

    I used to like spending time with his family but his mother is just crabby towards me all the time and whines about EVERYTHING and is never positive about anything. So its more of a drag to see her. But his dad and i get along very well. :)

    I would say I go see them when I can because we plan on getting married next year, but otherwise I probably wouldn't as often.
     
  5. nikky0907

    nikky0907 Well-Known Member

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    I'm not involved much with Lola's dad's family.They live in California,pretty far away...
     
  6. PixieKitty

    PixieKitty Guest

    I see them around the same amount I see my own parents!
    When we're not stopping over at my house we're at his, so we've grown pretty tight :)
    xo
     
  7. glitterxcloud

    glitterxcloud New Member

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    I see OH's family quite a bit, they live across the road! they're very family orientated, like church, then big family roast &spending all sundays together, which bugs me cause it's suffocation but they're alright.
    i get what you mean about feeling uncomfortable, my oh's bro&sis and their wife&husband are like the perfect children, whereas me&oh lived in sin (living together before we got married & not going to church anymore) so we always get annoying comments. and when my baby niece is around, we're completely ignored &not trusted with her!
    i guess all you can do is try and go there more and deal with the uncomfortableness and hopefully it will ease after you seen them a bit more...?
     
  8. Jemma_x

    Jemma_x Mummy and Engaged

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    I see OH family everyday as i spend near enough most of my time there and i do get on with them.
     
  9. heather91

    heather91 Preggers with 2nd

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    We see them every 6 weeks or so because they live quite far from us, but we get on really well. I hate having to go and stay at theirs though, because although they're lovely, I like being in my own house. We went this weekend and I cried from start to finish cause I wanted to go home rofl hormones x
     
  10. Beth_18

    Beth_18 Well-Known Member

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    before i was preg i never really sin my oh mum she never really boved with me she use to say hello that was about it. but as soon as i said i was pregnant she has been so pushy and false towards me it really gets on my tits lol

    x x x
     

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