redneckhippy
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I've decided that I don't want anyone but my husband to to be there during my labor. I think I would also like about 1 hour after the baby is born before I allow anyone to visit (grandparents first, then extended family only after we are back home). I know this is going to ruffle some feathers in the family (I'm pretty sure my in-laws are expecting to be in the room for the birth), but after all I've gone through to get and stay pregnant, I've just decided it's my birth experience and asking for 1 hour to bond as a new family and establish breast feeding is not unreasonable. I always worry about offending others, but then I'm just thinking like, why should my birth experience be lessened. Either they will be upset or I will be, but I am the one giving birth, so I'm going to be selfish for once.
Just wondering what others are doing and how long you will wait until you let other family come visit?
Just wondering what others are doing and how long you will wait until you let other family come visit?