ladyty2k
Mummy of one
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Sorry for the rant in advance..
Im soooo angry this morning!! Im bunged up with the flu and cold and realy struggled yesterday to cope with our 9 week old so my husband said he would book the day off work today and do the night feeds etc in the night last night....
He never does night feeds, which ok when he is in work in the week i dont expect him to but even on weekends he doesnt.
Anyway came around to her first night feed last night...he was snoring away, no sign what so ever of him getting up..i eve left her cry a little bit to wake him...nope, had to struggle out of bed myself again and feed her and same again at the second feed....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr he is sooooo lazy, he said he would help and he didnt!
I also asked him to make the feeds up last night so i could go on up to bed when i had settled her, he said yes no probs...but no...woke for her first feed and there were no feeds ready!!
What am i doing wrong..im so upset this morning, hate him for it! I do so much and all i was asking for was a night off and i didnt get it.
I took her up for her nap just now and he was there snoring away still, all cosied up!!....he then woke briefly and said 'ill have her now hun'!!!!! ha!!!!!!! i said 'there is no point now, you enjoy your sleep!!' very sarcastically
Are anyone elses OH like this or am i just unlucky!?!?!?
Its a good job us women get on with it isnt it!
Sorry for the rant i just needed to tell someone!
Thanks ladies
x
Tara
Im soooo angry this morning!! Im bunged up with the flu and cold and realy struggled yesterday to cope with our 9 week old so my husband said he would book the day off work today and do the night feeds etc in the night last night....
He never does night feeds, which ok when he is in work in the week i dont expect him to but even on weekends he doesnt.
Anyway came around to her first night feed last night...he was snoring away, no sign what so ever of him getting up..i eve left her cry a little bit to wake him...nope, had to struggle out of bed myself again and feed her and same again at the second feed....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr he is sooooo lazy, he said he would help and he didnt!
I also asked him to make the feeds up last night so i could go on up to bed when i had settled her, he said yes no probs...but no...woke for her first feed and there were no feeds ready!!
What am i doing wrong..im so upset this morning, hate him for it! I do so much and all i was asking for was a night off and i didnt get it.
I took her up for her nap just now and he was there snoring away still, all cosied up!!....he then woke briefly and said 'ill have her now hun'!!!!! ha!!!!!!! i said 'there is no point now, you enjoy your sleep!!' very sarcastically
Are anyone elses OH like this or am i just unlucky!?!?!?
Its a good job us women get on with it isnt it!
Sorry for the rant i just needed to tell someone!
Thanks ladies
x
Tara