Howd you tell your FOB/SO

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I have recently found out that I'm most likely pregnant (wow its scary to see that out in the open like that)- late period, nausea, heartburn, my mouth tastes as though I've been sucking on coins and yoh the smell of certain food is making me naar. I took a test yday and it was like a very faint positive. I will be testing again tomorrow, hopefully. I'll be seeing my bf again on Saturday and, if it comes out positive, that's when I'm going to need to let him know.
We've been together 13 and a half months. I'm 16, he's 17.
I do know that his parents don't really like me as we've had some issues in the past, I've never officially met them yet. And I also know they're kinda having huge financial issues at home and my parents will kick me out as soon as they find out. Soooo he's going to bring up getting an A..which I refuse to do. I know that he'll be as supportive as he can bcoz he "feels its the right thing to do"
I don't exactly wanu just say to him "I'm pregnant" straight out like that and I'm nervous like crazy

Can I please hear ur stories?
 
I've had to tell my husband I'm pregnant three times. It's easy really. The first time, I sen him a picture message of the test as he was across the country. The second time, I handed him the test, as I did this third time. Ignore any harsh comments and such. I'm sure he will be in a state of shock! Congratulations though! I'm Lisa, 20, we have a two year old names Emma, have had on mc, and I'm pregnant with our second.
 
Me and my OH had a feeling I might be so I did a test while he was waiting outside the room at his house I then came out and we were both really happy, excited and scared lol x
 
I'm kayla, I'm 19 and almost 10 weeks pregnant with my first.
I live with FOB.
I wasn't feeling well for a few weeks and just had a feeling I was pregnant.
I told him and we went and bought a pregnancy test.
He waited in our room, I went into the bathroom and had a very dark positive.
Told him and we were botth very happy.
He's older than me, 25 and very mature. So I know he's gonna be there for me and our baby :)
 
My partner actually found out before I did :D I was late, I thought it was because I was I'll plus under a lot of physical strain at work, but we decided to test if it didn't come after a week, so he went and got one of them high teck tests bless him :) I covered the screen and have it to him cuz I was too nervous XD
 
I'd had so many scares before so thought nothing of it, so I went out one night and told him I thought I was but I highly doubted it :dohh: .. Well when I was 10 days late we tested and it was clearly positive!
Good luck!
P.S. I'm Clair, I'm 18 and I have an almost 6 month old named Jason :)
 
FOB knew I was preggers before I did:dohh: I really think much of it when I missed my period becuz I've missed it so many times before so I thought it will come hehe was I wrong. FOB forced me to go get a pregnancy. When it came back positive I was so indenail:dohh:
 
fob kept telling me i was pregnant and i kept saying no no im not, i was in denial after having 4 previous miscarriages, one day at college i started throwing up and my tutor asked if i was pregnant i said i dont think so so she told me to go take a test i had no money so my friend came with me and bought me one, i did it in asda loo's and when i saw it was positive i kept laughing whilst my friend ran around shouting at people i was pregnant so whilst walking back to college i rang fob and went you were right and when i got home later i gave him the test :L
 
Hahahahahahahahahaha u guys are soooo lucky all of ur bfs were expecting it. I had spoken to him on bbm the other night (thru his bros phone, his is in for repairs) and I'd said to him he should come over this weekend bcoz I wanu talk to him and see him again and his response was just "ur preg?" Then I kinda pretended to be asleep.. Any ideas of how I should tell him?
I hada weird dream last night. I dreamt that my mom woke me up and gave me a test to use (freaking weird dude. Thatd NEVER happen) well anyways. I went to the bathroom and at first it had one red (|) and I was like "omg thank goodness wow that's.....ooooh sh*" bcoz suddenly it gave me a red X not lika + lika X. Then I woke up. Then around 12 today I managed to get another test. Clear Blue. aaaand yknow how it says wait 3 mins? For the first minute it was DARK + and then it started fading. At 3 mins it was a dark | line and then across it was a faaaaiiiiiint line. Then after another 4 mins or so, it was gone and just the | was there. Wtf does this mean??
 
Yeah my bf knew I was idk how but he jus knew! Well we were tryin but I was in denial too, n of course I got a test a 3 n half weeks took it told him to come upstairs n thay was it.
 
In addition, if this helps anyone understand my issue at all, I downloaded a period/ovulation calendar and worked the last time I did it with bf was 2 days before I ovulated (which happened on november 5th)
 
Guys I'm really freaking out. Ik its annoying and stuff but if anyone can help me I'd be eternally grateful. I'm stressed and confused and do not have money for another pregnancy test till the 30th
 
I'd say wait til the 20th and get a high tech one, the one I got was £10 but it came up with "pregnant 2-3 Weeks" on the screen so there was no doubt about it :)
 
Omg that's hectic. It shows u how far along u are too!? Woooaaahhh. Haha I'm from SA so it'll be like R150 and I was panicking to get for R36 for this one.. I'll hopefully be getting some bday money so I should be able to manage it. Where about did u get it? At a pharmacy or?
 
I got my pregnancy test at Clicks...the Clearblue is something I didn't want to go for as it was R150-R250:shock: so I went for a first response..I forgot the name:dohh:.it cost R23.00...
 
:| r u also from SA? The clear blue I got was from spar and literally R36 that R150-R250 is insane! Like wow
 
I blurted. I just explained that cause my periods were becoming more regular I thought we'd have been safe when we slept together without protection. Explained I was late and I'd taken a test and it was positive. My FOB isnt my boyfriend, we're just best friends so I guess that was better in the way that he couldn't threaten to break up with me. But He was still really supportive. I'm 17 and he's 18 so it's not like we're much older than you two.

I hope it goes well :)
 
:| r u also from SA? The clear blue I got was from spar and literally R36 that R150-R250 is insane! Like wow

Yep I am...it depends where you buy it..Clicks is very expensive..I never knew Spar carries HPT:dohh:..
 
Woooaaah that's so awesome. I'm from Durbz neh. I guess that explains babas name now. I was kinda confused at first bcoz so many ppl on here are from overseas etc.
 
:haha: *jealous*:(..I wanna be in Durbs at this time of the year..the Festivals there are nca:(..lol I'm from Mpumalanga:dohh: so quiet:dohh:
 

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