Howd you tell your FOB/SO

[aalz]

So I spoke to OH today and he said he knew bcoz he hada dream but yeah when I said I'm keeping it he was like, I was prepared for u to be preg but I wasn't prepared for this. He freaked out (just as I expected him to) and yeah we fought so much. He was saying he'll do anything for me to get an A. He even stripped down to is underwear n made me dress him. Which ofc I had trouble with bcoz he has a broken arm. And said to me "if u can't even dress me, how dyu expect to dress that thing" *motioning at my stomach* and he was saying like as soon as his dad finds out, he'll be like I can never see OH again. I don't put that past him since he does hate me already. But yeah. I'm so stressed. I even made him l2 Happy Birthday- Flipsyde and he still said I don't care u can't keep it :'(

 

[lil lovey]

I'm sorry girl. Just give him sometime he might be still shocked and overwhelmed. Guys take news to pregnancy different as to us girls. FOB was also acting like that give him sometime

 

[aalz]

Thanks *hug* (sorry haha idk the codes) I bbm'd him a message so long that it couldn't fit in one message and he's come around, said he'll be there for me no matter what I decide to do. I'm so grateful I've at least got his support now!!

 

[lil lovey]

that's great! When you telling your parents?

 

[x__amour]

He was just with me when I took the test. A lot easier than having to explain it, lol.

 

[aalz]

Right now the ideal would be 22 weeks (that's the legal max for A ryt?) but I guess its not all that realistic. Sooo I'm gonu havta hold it off as long as possible

 

[lizmageeful]

He was in the other room when i took the test. but we were freaking out. TBH, we're still freaking out. its still hard to believe its real.

 

[lil lovey]

Right now the ideal would be 22 weeks (that's the legal max for A ryt?) but I guess its not all that realistic. Sooo I'm gonu havta hold it off as long as possible

Yeah it is..are you considering it?.

 

[mumma2be95]

Well,
my ex boyfriend are I werent together at the time and still arent and we hadnt spoken for ten days and really werent planning on speaking to each other at all but I just had to tell him... so, I just sent him a picture of the positive pregnancy test. At first he was in shock and wasn't supportive but now he's always wanting to be around.

 

[aalz]

Right now the ideal would be 22 weeks (that's the legal max for A ryt?) but I guess its not all that realistic. Sooo I'm gonu havta hold it off as long as possible

Yeah it is..are you considering it?.

Not at all. It took me a few hours to craft that essay to OH about being anti it. I just know that my parents will try and force me into it. They'll probably say to me "get rid of it or get out the house" so if I can at least take that out the picture first, then I'm safe

 

[lil lovey]

Right now the ideal would be 22 weeks (that's the legal max for A ryt?) but I guess its not all that realistic. Sooo I'm gonu havta hold it off as long as possible

Yeah it is..are you considering it?.

Not at all. It took me a few hours to craft that essay to OH about being anti it. I just know that my parents will try and force me into it. They'll probably say to me "get rid of it or get out the house" so if I can at least take that out the picture first, then I'm safe

...hope it won't be so. But are you going to be able to OB or midwife? With out their knowledge? Unless you'll have cash

 

[aalz]

Well I was most likely just going to go to a government hospital or clinic. I've heard that your checks and meds are free. Will be going for my first as soon as my exams are over (finishing on tuesday) my best friend who stays literally across the road from one and I should be able to go with her

 

[lil lovey]

Oh that's good...you in matric?

 

[aalz]

Nooo :'( I'm in grade 10 I'm assuming ure in grade 11? Next year is gonu be so hectic as bf will also be in matric. What I was thinking I'll do (haven't spoken to him about this yet) was since I'm due mid-end next year, for the last 2 terms I can fetch my work and study then just go to write exams and the next year, when I'm in matric, he could take care of the baby so that I can finish school at least. That is hoping and praying we'll have parental support but both our parents' are pretty messed up/scary ppl. And we both know its not going to be as easy as we hope but will somehow make a plan.
Hey I've been feeling super hungry all day. Isn't it too early for hunger? I mean I'm so early and like am I just imagining this or is it normal? Less than half an hour after I eat, my tummy is growling "feed me!! Feed me!!"

 

[lil lovey]

it happeneds anytime.I found myself at 2:30am going to the kitchen making food.even now I eat but still so flipp'n hungry. It will be hectic on the both of yal grade 11 is as funbelieve me

 

[aalz]

Maaaaan that sucks! I hate being hungry and it makes the heartburn worse too :'(
Hey I hava q what kinda toiletries dyu get for baba from 2da? I've never had any younger siblings and I'm really like blank about the things I'll nda look into getting. I guess its lucky OH has 5 siblings (4 younger. So he kinda knows) but not me. I'm like so scared and I'd rather start checking out pricing etc now. Ik it'll change but just so ik. Yknow?

 

[lil lovey]

soap,lotion,baby wipes,I got bump cream,some use baby powder.lol I'm not much help.

 

[aalz]

Ahh that's awesome. Hey was more knowledge than I previously had. Especially as I'll now go find out what bump cream is

 

[lil lovey]

Its a cream for bumps lmao used when baby has nappy rash

 

[aalz]

Oooooh that makes sense hahahaha like it was impossible to find out about
Aren't u nervous?! Or just excited??? Less than a month left!